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asad198025 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th May, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 7:34am |
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 My Wife Avoding Sex: Shall I Maintain Extra Marrital Relations?
dr. sahab, mere shaadi ko 4.5 years hogaye hain mere ek beti hai jo 2 saal ki hai problem yeh hai k mere beti ki birth honay k baad mere wife intercourse karnay say ghabraati hai aur na hi wo safe sex karnay pe aamada hoti hai almost 2.5 years hogaye hain intercourse kiye howay .. bohat samjhaya apni wife ko lekin wo nahin maantey wo kehtey hai k sex say female ko internal problem hotey hai jo pregnancy mein weakness paeda kartey hai . aesey position mein agar main kisi doosrey aurat k sath sex karta hoon tu kya yeh sahi hai.. pls reply fast thanks
Dear
Doctor, I got marriage 4.5 years back. I do have 2 years of baby girl. The problem
is that after birth of my baby girl, my wife has been scaring of doing sex not
only but also she doesn’t agree for even protected sex. It has taken 2.5 years
that I have not done sex with her. She says that intercourse may generate
internal problems in females that may leads to weakness during pregnancy. Is that
right if in this scenario I will do sex with some other girl?
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sunehri76 |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Aug, 2007 Topic: 99 Post: 4664 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 2:25pm |
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asad nahi aisi surat me bhi ap kisi aur ke sath sex nahi kar sakte,
ap apni wife ko finaly & clearly samjha dain ,ke ab age aisa nahi chalega,pata nahi unhon ne kahan se ye fasool bat sun li hai..,apko ab zara sakhti lani padegi ,unhe samjhayen ke ye ek need hai.agar wo puri nahi karengi to apko majbooran dusri shadi karni padegi.
unhe is hadees ka bhi zaroor bataen ke jab ek aurat ,apne khawand ko mana karti hai to sari rat us pe Farishte laanat bejhte hain.
agar wo phir bhi nahi samajhti to ap dusri shadi kar sakte hain,but illigale kisi ke sath aisa karne ki ijazat nahi hai. |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2268 Age:
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| Posted on:16th May 2009, 2:33pm |
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 asad
i agree to sunehri.. |
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 115 Post: 6801 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 3:26am |
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himmatay MARDAAN madad khoda aap ko sawaal ka jawaab to mil hi gayaa hai k NO....
but...
aap ka sawaal paRh kar mujhay bahoot hansee aayee... agar yeh "shikayat" koi biwi karay k oska shauher.... to baat samajh maiN aati hai coz "shikayat" hamesha naazuk aur kamzore log hi kia kartay hain... agar koi biwi awwal shab hi say 'inkaar' karay tab bhi baat samajh maiN aa sakti hai k kissi nafseyaati pecheedgiyouN k baaes woh khauf.zadah hai magar 2 saal tak sex karnay k baad aur aik aulaad paidaa karnay k baad biwi 'inkaar' karay aur mard oski 'shikayat' karay to some thing is fishy...
sorry to say k problem aap ki biwi maiN nahi balkay aap maiN hai k aap aik chat talay rahtay howay apni biwi ko 'qaboo' nahi karsaktay by any method ... 1st method to baat cheet k zariyeh ossay razamand karna hai.. aap nay yaqeenan aisaa kia aur 'nakaam' howay.... 2nd method bahlaa phuslaa kar .. piyaar mohabbat say ossay raah par lay aanaa... yaqeenan aap nay aisaa bhi kia hoga magar 'nakaam' rahay... ab teesra aur aakhri methid rah jata hai yaani 'by force' ... bil.jabar.... aap yeh bhi nahi kar sakay aur yahaaN bhi 'nakaam rahay.... aik 4th method abhi baqi hai k aap ossay daraa dhamkaa kar k agar woh nah maani to aap 2nd shadi karlengay baaqi hai.... pata nahi aap iss maiN bhi kaamyaab hongay yaa naheeN.
bhai meray prob aap main hai... on maiN nahi... wazah rahay k above saray method yakay baad degaray within months apnanay hotay hain aur aik confident mard apni qavi mardaangi k bal botay par har haal maiN kaamyaab hojata hai 9kissi nah kissi method main) aisaa nahi k kissi bhi method maiN woh kaamyaab nah hosakay.... plz check urself k aap main aakhir kia kami hai.
aap agar 'ghar wali' pay 'qaboo' nahi pasaktay to yaqeen rakhaiN k 'bahar wali' say bhi kuch nahi karsaktay illa yeh k kissi 3rd grade k tawaaif k pass ja kar 1) mouNh kalaa karaiN 2) gonaahay kabeerah ka irtikaab karaiN jiski islami sazaa sang.saar (stoning till death) hai 4 married person ... 3) onsay makhsoos jinsee beemariyouN ka tohfa like AIDS etc lay kar lauTaiN.
Allah aap ko aqal, himmat, mardanah quwwat aur biwi par balaa dast honay ki taufeeq day aameen takay aap above mentioned sooratay haal say bach sakaiN... |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 4:33am |
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asad me also agreed to sunehri
lekin pehle ye bat ap apni wife se discuss keryen aur waja jannay ki koshish keryen k akhir wo kon si bateyn hain jis ki waja se wo sex nahi kertin
phr kisi solution pe uter sktey hain hum
ask her , discuss with her and then tell us |
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koyal |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Dec, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 500 Age:
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| Posted on:18th May 2009, 2:14pm |
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asad Kisi bhi haal main zina jaiz nahi hay jo gunah hay wo har haal main gunah hay aur behter hay ke aap aisi soch apne dil o dimagh se nikaal dain doosri bat ye ke agar apki wife dar rahi hain tu koi waja zarur hogi unse discuss karen unko apne hukook samjhayen Islam ka hawala dain kisi aalima se rujoo karen ke wo apki wife ko samjhayen, behter hoga ke aap unko doctor ke paas leke jayen takay wo unki ghalat fehmi door kar saken ke intercourse se koi health problems nahi hoteen aur phir bhi wo na manain tu kisi psycatrist ke paas leke jayen, jab koi raasta na miley itna sab karney ke baad bhi tu apni wife se ijazet leke doosri shaadi kar lain |
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Sooth |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2007 Topic: 303 Post: 1941 Age:
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 2:49am |
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 RE:
plz aap pni wife ka believe change kerain.un ko kis ne bola ke aisa hota hai.ager es tara sex se hota tu ALLAH pak ne husband wife ma sexual relation rakha kuin hota.
aik aur bhi wajha ho sakti hai ke aap ki wife ma sexual feelings kam han jis ki wajha se un ka sex ka dil nahi kerta ya aap kuch es tara sex ma techniques use kerrain ke wo aap se satusfy hon,aap un ko zyada pyar kerain takay un ka dil keray.aap apni wife ko pyar se convience ker saktay han,aap ko just technique chahiay aur aap noorclinic books read kerain aur wife ko zyada se zyada satisfy kerain.aap ko sakhti aur zabardast kernay ki zarorat nahi,laikin haan aap pyar se zabardast ker saktay han aur apni wife per es tara pyar ka jaddu kerain ke wo garvida ho jaye aap ki aur aap se khud bar bar sex ki demand keray.
remember aurat kabhi sakhti se handle nahi hoti,aurat humesha pyar se handle hoti hai,aap ussay pyar dain bahot sara aur tawajo dain wo aap ki ghulaam bun jaye gi.
aurat humesha pyar manghti hai aur mard sex manghta hai.
kindly kisi doseri aurat ka khayal dil ma na layain.
plz read this: Loss of Libido Or Sexual Desire
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myrizvi |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Apr, 2008 Topic: 115 Post: 6801 Age:
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| Posted on:20th May 2009, 3:17am |
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Golden Wordz 1.remember aurat kabhi sakhti se handle nahi hoti,
2.aurat humesha pyar se handle hoti hai,
3.aap ussay pyar dain bahot sara aur tawajo dain wo aap ki ghulaam bun jaye gi.
4.aurat humesha pyar manghti hai aur mard sex manghta hai.
well said... golden wordz shud be repeated :) yeh mera apna zati qaul hai lol
aap ki baat bilkul durust hai ... lein ... "sakhti say piyaar" to kia jasakta hai naa ... issi tarah "piyaar main sakhti" bhi koi bori cheez naheen, meray khayaal say :) |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:21st May 2009, 5:32am |
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rizwi bhai wah
chaa gaye hain ap to
bht achi bat ki hai ap ne
wife se is tarhan ki sakhti jayez hai
jayez kaam k liye zabardasti kerna gunnah nahi hai lekin behter hai k mana k achay tareekey se kiya jaye |
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