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surprised |
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| Posted on:8th May 2007, 12:22pm |
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 Wedding Night: Does Bride\'s Cousins Prob?
Well i have a question to all of u.i have listened that in pakistan mostly wife's sister and cusons asks story of suhag raat from her. So plz tell me that Firstly is it true? Secondly is it right? Thirdly what would be reaction of wife.
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:8th May 2007, 5:12pm |
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re: surprised ho sakta hai keh aisa hota ho. lekin shareef gharano mai aisa koi tasawar nahi. friends se tawaqo ki jaskti hai ke wo shararat mai yeh sawal kare.
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:8th May 2007, 5:18pm |
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RE. suhag raat story Islam main suhaag raat ki batain dosron ko batanay sai sakhti sai mana kia gaya hai. aur yeh aik buhut bara gunah hai kion kai yeh mian aur bivi kai darmian raaz ki batain hain jo kisi aur sai discuss nahin ki ja sakteen. As far as I remember aik hadees mubarka main khaas taur per is baat sai bachnay ki talqeen ki gaye hai. Yeh aik gunah hai aur couple ko chahiye kai isay bata kar gunahgar na hon. yeh amanat main khayanat hai. thanks |
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SMARTEE |
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| Posted on:9th May 2007, 2:53am |
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Re: srpurised maine kaee logon se sona hai ke Islam main hai ke meyan or bewe ek dosre ka lebas hote hain or dono main se kese ek ne bhe apne raz ke bat dosron ko bataee eska matlab hai osne apne partner ko dosron ke samne nanga kerdeya. |
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muskan |
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| Posted on:9th May 2007, 3:09am |
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ıt ıs very bad |
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muskan |
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| Posted on:9th May 2007, 3:13am |
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ı dont know why gals ask theır married cosins about all this stuffıts a shamefull act and i m sugessting all married people dont tell anythinh abot ur marrital relation .2 anybudy even ur sister .bcoz this is how we missguide our young generatıon.ıf sumbudy ask u abt it tell him not to ask it again. |
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faisee |
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| Posted on:9th May 2007, 3:37am |
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Re. muskan I totally agree with muskan. but couldnt understand that what does mean by "bcoz this is how we missguide our young generatıon". please briefly clarify. thanks |
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khan_80 |
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| Posted on:10th May 2007, 7:28am |
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re Its not a custom in noble families.
its a great sin in the eyes of ALLAH.
yes, muskan is right that it can misguide the unmarried girls bcoz in first night no one can do intercourse perfectly or successfully. when a new bride will tell these things to the unmarried girls, they will create misconcepts and wrong beliefs in their mind.
And if the bride will tell fake stories or exaggerate the pain experience, the unmarried girls will get confused and will fear from marriage.
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mian jee |
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| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 2:04am |
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ya its right n true k mian or biwi 1 dosre ka libas hote ahin so
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justSalman |
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| Posted on:22nd May 2007, 4:27am |
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I also Heared That Bro Surprized i also heard that female friends of Duhlan ask her to tell them about their suhag raat but it on duhlan how much she want to be undress herself it is also mention in Quran that husband & wife are clothes to each other means if wife open her husband secrets not just about suhaag raat about any thing it means she is showing herself to others same rule apply for husband towards her wife means if he open the secrets of wife.
Hum log gunnahon ke putala hain Allah hum sab ko naki karnein ki aur gunnahon se bacna ke tufiq ata farma Ameen
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had hey |
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| Posted on:12th May 2009, 1:42pm |
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hmm
jee right suhag raat ki batien bilcul nhi batani chiye yeh gunah hey
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koyal |
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| Posted on:12th May 2009, 1:52pm |
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surprised first of all i dont think friends or cozins ask such intimate questions yes asking about the gift(mun dikhayi) is possible which i dont disapprove of. therz nothing rong wid that. But if someone does ask this question dat someone had to be one with whom ur very frank so much so that he/she could ask such private questions, if this happens it does not means that they would like to know full details, it means they like to see the bride blush and then tease her about it. The brides normally smile or blush and thats the end of the story |
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sincerecub |
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| Posted on:26th Aug 2009, 8:48pm |
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 Yes ! it is true.
yes it is true.
For males: mostly friends ask each other about it. just close friends. Males friends to sharat say next day (walimay) par hi pooch laitay hain.
For females: female friends ask whenever you wisit them or they visit your home.
But...
i agree to all my fellows here that it is not allowed in Islam to share their "Bed Talks" with others. Specially about stag night (suhaag raat)
main nay aik islamic book main parha tha k husband must make sure after entering room that there is every thing confidential.
koi aisi place to nahi room main k jahan say koi dekh sakta ho yah ap ki batain sun sakta hon.
secondally. husband have to take her wife in confidence. mostly 70 percent females afraid of their stag night. So if wife is in confidence, every thing will be fine.
Allah Bless you all. |
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markato |
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| Posted on:30th Sep 2012, 6:11am |
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 It is true
This new generation has grown up faster then their actual age,believe me 12 years old girls are asking the bride on very next morning what happened was it easy or painful.how many times the groom cout hit you well etc etc.
I feel very shortly all youth will have practical experience prior to marriage and to avoid wedding night pain.A percentage are already doing it with cousins,brothers,friends |
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