A Sad Story Of An Inocent Girl

SALAM TO ALL! Me ek problem discuss karna chahta hon ap sab say.Hope Dr.Sahab or other members apni apni suggestions zaror dain gay. Me B.com ka student hon or chatroom me aksar chat karta hon.wahan ek aesi larki bhi atti thi jo kisi say baat nahi karti thi or bas chat parti thi sab ki.Aik din mene us say baat karnay ki koshish ki or usay ohat tang kia.baat kar k laga jese wo bohat dukhi si hai.Mene usay confidence me lay kar us say sad honay ka sabab pocha or mere insist karnay par us nay mujhay apni pori kahani bata di jo k yon thi: Us nay bataya k wo apnay parents ki akloti olad hai.jab wo peda hoi to usay adopt kia gaya tha.ahista ahista usay ye baat malom ho gayi small age me hi.to tab say wo gum sum rehne lagi.unhi dino unk ghar main relatives aa k rehnay lagay or unhi me say aik larka nay usk sath zayadti shoro kar di.wo kamsin thi or kuch nahi janti thi.us nay usay hazar bar iska nishana banaya.jab wo matric main pohnchi to usay galat sahi ka pata chala to us nay us larke ko sakthi say mana kar diya k apnay parents ko bata day gi.us nay na to ye kabhi unko bataya k wo janti hai k wo kis ki olad hai or na hi ye k us k sath kaya kaya howa hai. phir issi tara uska aik larke kay sath love affair chala.usay saharay ki zarorat thi payar or tawaja ki to usay laga k ye theek hai.lekin us larkay nay usay bohat badnam kia.yahan tak kaha k usk sath galat kisam ka relation hai.jab k wo us say kabi nahi mili.phir us larki nay apnay app ko sambhalna shoro kia.or larko say nafrat ho gayi usay.lekin aik bar phir usk dil par kisi nay dastak di or wo koi or hi ajnabi tha.us larki nay usay apnay baray me sab bataya.larke nay yakeen dilaya k wo porani batain bhola day.wo us say pyar karta hai.larke nay us say bahir kahin milnay ko kaha.lekin wo na mani.larke nay usay zehni torture kia.wo chahti thi usay zindagi ka sathi banana.larke nay kaha k agar wo na mili to wo us say kabhi nahi touch karay ga shadi k baad bhi.aesay torture karnay par wo us say mili or ye silsaala bharta gaya.wo usay rokti lekin wo bharta jata.wo ye sab kuch pasand nahi karti thi par pagal usay khona bhi nahi chati thi.unka relation sex tak ja pohncha.wo adultery ki had tak gay.bas itna khayal rakha k larki pregnent na ho jay.larki nay har bar Allah say touba ki mafi mangi par ahista ahista is had tak us dal dal me phans gayi k us ka nikalna mushkil ho gaya. abb wo touba karna chahti hai nahi kar pati.Rab say dor ho gayi hai.chahti hai k sab kuch chor day par nahi kar sakti.dosri taraf usk ghar walay jantay hain k us larkay say pyar karti hai wo razi nahi hain shadi pay.wo mar jana chahti hai.wo janti hai k wo bohat gunah gar hai or maffi nahi mile gi.uski mother us pay pehlay say hi shak karti thin jab aesa kuch nahi tha.or abb bohat karti hain jab wo bohat kuch kar chuki hai. Dr.Sahab bazahir to is pori story say mera koi taluk nahi.lekin hai b bohat gehra.us nay ek ajnabi samjh k apnay dil ki baat keh di k kisi ko pata to nahi chalay ga.us nay mujhay bataya k jab wo sex karti hai to usay bar bar khayal ata hai k Allah usay dekh raha hai.wo baat b yaad atti hai k dunya say chup k sab kam kiye lekin apnay Rab say chup k nahi kia yani Rab ko sab say hakeer jana. Mana k wo bohat gunah gar hai.lekin kaya koi bata sakta hai k uski aesi soch kese hoi.kuen wo aesay galat rasta pay chal rahi hai.me usay koi mashwara nahi day saka.or us din say hadeed zehni tanao me hon.kash k uski bat na suni hoti.us say baat kar k ye nahi lagta k wo by nature bori hai.educated hai agay barna chahti hai par borayon me phasti ja rahi hai.abb sab say request hai k mujhay acha mashwara dain me uski kese help karon???? App sab say Requset hai k jisay bhi ye post pasand na aye ignore kar day.but please bad remarks day k mujhay hurt na karain.bari umeed say app say hal pocha hai ....... :(

Re. fahad ali

Yeh hamari society ka buhut bara almia hai kai hamari larkian extreme innocent aur hamaray larkay (not all) extreme flirt hain. Allah aur akhirat ka khof khatam hota ja raha hai. Emotional dialogues sai hamari piyar aur muhabbat ki bhooki larkion ko wargalaya jata hai aur phir unhain us piyar aur ehsas ka maza chakha kar apni sexual desire poori ki jatee hai. Shareef larkay agar muhabbat karain tu woh islami aur legal tareeqon per chaltay hue har kaam kartay hain. Aur woh larkay jo shadi sai pehlay sex ki demand kartay hain, for sure, unhain shadi sai koi matlab nahin hota aur woh sirf free aur pure sex ka maza lena chahtay hain.

Is kai solution main yahee kaha ja sakta hai kai woh us larkay ko milna chor dai, kuch bhi ho woh usay na milay, yahan tak kai un ki shadi na ho jaye. aur us ki kisi qism ki black mailing main na aye. is cheez ka chootna mushkil hai per na mumkin nahin. agar woh kuch din sabar kar lai tu Allah ki madad usay mazeed buraion sai bacha lai gi. Allah ham sab ko maaf karay. thanks

kashh hum muslim sahe..

kkashh aisa kuch na  hota.. sab kuch parh key bohat dukh howa... merey nazdeek to yehi solution hai key who jal az jald kissi achey insan sey shaadi kar ley,.. bakki ALLAH key gahr sey na umeed nahi hona chahy.. who chahey to keya nahi ho sakta...

ALLAH hum sab ko pakhshey amine sum amine

Re:give you r opinion

Dear Fahad

Aisa koi gunah nahi jis ki Allah nay sachi tuba karnay ka bad mafi na rakhi ho. Sachay dil say tuba ki aur agar phir bi us ka dil us larkay say mohabat karta hay tu Allah say dua karay ka diloon main nafrat bi woi paida karta hay aur mohabat bi.Allah say har namaz ka bad dua kara kay usay is larakay say door kar day dil say to is main koi baeed nahi ka Allah sunain wala hay kion ka. wa nahno aqrabo ilaihi min hablil wareed.

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FAHAD ALI,

first of all, i really appreciate u and thank you, on behalf of all the members to being so sensitive for an unknown girl's issue. We all are here for this noble cause of discussing people's problems and trying to solve them with the help of our respectable members.

As far as the issue is concerned, i would like to request all the members to give their suggestions.