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| Posted on:15th Jul 2007, 7:00am |
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 Is My Cousin Virgin?
hy my question is based on my own problem, its a long story, but i will share u guys shortly,but thats the truth, so do not lough on me, i was i in love with my cousion, mari uss say magni ho gi, latter on her cousion toled me she chat some one els on phone, when i asked she replied that v were only friends nothing more, i said ok, latter on after 3 months i came to know that she and her college friends used to go on date with some boys i get angery, problem was that she was my cousion and i loved her, i asked yu do that she could not rely me and start making excuse, three month ago i was commming lahore, she toled me when u come u will do sex with me, i said y, she said i want that, and she also said when u go back u leave me, i said i will not, but when i come lahore, v meet, she start kissing me and unfortunatly v did sex, but i have not get any problem to do sex, and she did not bleed, she toled me she is virgin she never did sex before, she never did fingiring r some thing els, so u tell me how i can understand she was virgin r not, should i belive her should i marry her, she now saying she loves me tell me i m confused, help me guys.
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abcd |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Jul, 2007 Topic: 9 Post: 49 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Jul 2007, 8:12am |
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You do not need to mad.You must do marriage with her because it is your duty now.Because you have do love with her.
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simmonash |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Apr, 2007 Topic: 15 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Jul 2007, 2:35pm |
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Some times 1st time sex karne se bleed nahih hoti par ap ne us se pyar kia hay both f u id every thing jo k nahi karna chhaye tha par ab ho gya Allha se mafi mango or ap shadi kar lo us ka past tha us ko bhool jao or aik dusre k sath sincerly life guzar ok |
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Kali Zuban |
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| Posted on:16th Jul 2007, 11:51pm |
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re: girl friend virginity jo larki shadi se qabal sex karti hai woh virgin kaise ho sakti hai. farz kare keh aik larki shadi se qabal sex karti hai aur os ka hymen rupture nahi hota tu kia woh virgin hui. bilkul nai; aisi larki madically and islamic point se virgin nahi hui. |
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justSalman |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 174 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Jul 2007, 4:57am |
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Dont Worry But Take Care Brother i dont know your Nikah is done or not but i think not because not mentioned there. If your Nikah is not done then you have contact any Alam-e-din because i read some where marriage with the you sex before is not possible Sorry but i think you are in big problem know But still you can confirm that she not get pregnant because its Harram and go to her discuss with her about her virignity and if she is pregnant you can't deny that baby and her also you are trapped my opinion as soon as possible dicuss with her and any good Alam-e-din also.
Sorry to say i am also brother of sister but i think your cousin is Character... i hope you under stand.
brother dont take any hard feeling but forgive me if ...
Hurry up you don't have time I PRAY ALLAH HELP YOU.
ALLAH HAFIZ. |
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Bewaqoof |
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| Posted on:20th Jul 2007, 12:06pm |
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ap ka apne bare mai kia khial hai ap ki mangeter virgin nahi hai. hamari nazar mai aik kharab larki hai. lekin ap ko bhi ham koi achcha nahi samajh rahe hai. ap dono aik hi jaise hai. lehaza mera mashwara hai keh ap apni cousin se shadi kar le. dono aik doosre ke lia theek rahe ge.
agar ap ke cousin ki shadi kisi virgin male se kardi jai ya ap ki shadi kisi virgin larki se kar di jai tu meri nazar mai virgin male/girl ke sath ziadti ho gi. ap aur ap ki cousin chukeh virgin nahi rahe is lia behtar hai keh ap dono apas mai shadi kar le.
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xkillerx |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Jul, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 12 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Jul 2007, 3:44am |
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Well Quran main sahi likha hai...
Her mard ko us jaisi aurat milti hai .
and i completely agree with Salman you have to consulat Alim for that cause both of you have done adultry, as for virginity bleeding is not the confirmation . i guess you need other solid proofs.
But as a brother let me give you a piece of advice she is virgin or not that doesnt matter at all know cause both of you are in same catogary now. So, marry her (if allowed in religion) and enjoy your life. |
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sufiyyan |
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| Posted on:12th Nov 2010, 9:53am |
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is any girl asked for sex before marriage? kia asa ho sakta hai? ager us ne aap se kaha hai to pher us ne date waley se behi yeahi kaha ho ga? kia aap behey hain key aap ko samj nahi ie? kia koi sharif larki shadi sey pheley sex ki request kar sakti hai?????????????? |
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shalim_86 |
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| Posted on:16th Nov 2010, 4:46pm |
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Its A sin Commiting sex before nikaah and rukhsati....either its done and you have engaged but you can't..........it will surely count in zina.....!!
The question come in mind...why she ask for sex before marriage + why are you backing up now.....just because she don't have bleeding????
bleeding is not the way of measuring women b.t.w....sometimes hymen is broken in childhood while playing or with any other thing so don't make it a detector...!!
you love her...go marry her and you both ask ALLAH for mercy for your sin you both committed....
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WEHSHI |
Group: Members Joined: 17th Aug, 2010 Topic: 44 Post: 2429 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Nov 2010, 11:13pm |
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virginity
hi dekho dosto seedhi bat hai k aj kl ho sakta hai k lerki physicaly to virgin ho lakin emotionaly to bilkul mumkin nhn tv, net, sb ne mil kr lerki ko itna kuch diya hai k ab us ki virginity kahan reh gai aur jo halat ap ne btaai hain mera sawal hai k jo ap se kr sakty hai us ne pehlay bhi ki ho gi sex aur ap konsay doodh k dhulay ho jis ne sex kr liya yeh konsi bat hai k merd jo bhi keray us ki virginity ko koi nhn poochta lakin lerki ka sb poochtay hain ap ko idea hai k 60% males aj kl shadi k 1 saal baad is qabil nhn rehtay k bv ko mutmaeen kr sakain phir woh ya to viagra se chaltay ahin ya cialic se is liyay lerki ka chal chalan ko perkho zarur aur us se bat bhi kero k us ne agr koi ghalti ki hai to theek hai ghalti ho gai woh bhi bhool jai aur ap bhi bhool jai lakin agr shadi k baad bhi woh keray to ap ka ghussa bhi jaiz hai is liyay jahan tak ap k sawal ki bat hai to ap ki cousin hai ap ko kerna hi ho ga us se shadi |
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eagle fly |
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| Posted on:24th Nov 2010, 4:10pm |
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Wehshi bhai agar Aap ki baat durust hy k Aaj kal k 60% males shadi k aik saal baad wife ko satisfy karnay k qabil nahee rehtay aur unhain artificial means jasay kuch tablets ka sahara lain parta hy, tou Aakhir woh kia wujoohat hyn k Aaj kal k 60% males shadi k aik saal baad wife ko satisfy nahee karsaktay? |
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Group: Members Joined: 10th Nov, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:11th Nov 2011, 7:01am |
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Keep your heart door open. There is no need to panic. life must go on. whether she is virgin or not. She is your responsibility now.. Buhat saari galtiyan hum apne bachon ki maaf ker dete hen, you know why ??? because we love them.. keep your doors of heart open. |
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sidra1 |
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| Posted on:13th Nov 2011, 8:56am |
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re now it really does not matter what's her past u people comet that sin u have to marry her otherwise no one will marry her because of u people sin.
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FizaRemaan |
Group: Members Joined: 04th Nov, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 35 Age:
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| Posted on:13th Nov 2011, 7:27pm |
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 kesa pyar?
app or app ke cuzun donu ajeb hu.app usse love kerte ho or beleding na hony ke waja se pereshan.halana ke app ko apny guna pe pereshan hona chaie tha.jahan tak bat he love ke to app ke batoo se lagta to nahe ke app sucha piyar kerte ho ab jo be he shady karo us se. |
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mrehans |
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| Posted on:15th Nov 2012, 11:35pm |
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 HMMMM
I think so k us sy shadi kr leni chahiye warna tmhara to pta nai us ki lyf k liye problm o skta hai |
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