Be Wafa Kaon - Mard ya Aorat

Aksar doosri shadi karne par mardon ko bura bhala kaha jata hai, woh mard waqia hi bura karte hein jo apni pehli bivi ko dhokay mein rakh kar doosri shadi karte hein. magar aaj jo main ek haqeeqat batane ja raha hoon is k baad aap log faisla karen keh kia iske zimedar sirf Mard hote hein:

Last week Sharjah mein ek jawan larki ka accident huwa aor uski at the spot death ho gaee, Police aor baqi logon ke liye yeh ek accident tha, magar iske peechay reason kia thi koee nahin janta.

Huwa kuch yoon keh is Larki ne last year hi love marriage ki thi (larka aor larki dono Sharjah mein hi set thay) aor apne husband k sath bari happy life ji rahi thi, 1 ya 2 month qabal uske husband ki net par kisi Lahore mein rehni wali larki se dosti ho gaee aor woh Larki yeh jante huway bhi keh yeh Larka shadi shuda hai phir bhi Khud gharzi ki patti aankhon par baandh kar us larke ke sath shadi par razi ho gaee, larka khufia shadi karke larki ko Sharjah le aaya aor usko alag flat mein rakha,

pehli bivi ko apne husband ko shak hona shuroo ho gia keh yeh ab ghaeb rehne laga hai. phir accident se ek raat qabal pehli Bivi ne uske phone se trace kar k uski doosri Bivi se baat ki to woh maan gaee keh haan main uski 2nd Wife hoon, main us se piyar karti hoon, magar tum se tumhara husband nahin chheenu gi, magar koee bhi aortat apna husband kisi ke sath share nahin kar sakti, us raat woh apne husband se khoob lari, aor woh cheater phir bhi inkar karta raha,

Love marrigae ki wajah se 1st wife apne parents ko bhi nahin bata sakti thi. Subah jab uska husband bath room mein gia to woh uski car ki chabi le kar drive par nikal gaee aor Jazbat mein itini speed se car chala rahi thi keh control na kar saki aor ek truck ko peechay se hit kia aor at the spot hi us bechari ki death ho gaee.

ab aap hi bataen keh uski death ka zimmedar kia sirf larka hai, main to isay qatal kahoon ga aor is qatal mein uski 2nd wife brabar ki shreek hai. Is liye main kehta hoon keh aisay mard to zaleel hote hi hein magar ek Aorat ka ghar ujarne ke peechay aksar ek Aorat ka hi hath hota hai. 

Here 2 Care

S4U

agree

i agree with s4u

also i want to add that, his 2nd wife is also responsible for her death.

q k mere khayal se us ne moqa acha jaan kar jaan booj kar 1st wife ko bataya k wo us ki doosri wife hai, kam az kam us ko ye karna chahie tha k apne husband se mashwara karti.

lekin wo larka hi kameena tha jo..........................................................

bas itna hi kehna hai muje

re: here2 care

re: one mistake high lighted

haan kasoor dono ka hai larke ka aur larki ka bhi.... 2ndwife to shayad es moke ka intezar kar rahi hogi k kabhi uski 1st wife ko kisi bhi halat me pata chal jaye...aur itefaaq se usne call ki aur us 2nd wife ne bina jhijhak bata dya jis se usko bara shok laga...aur raat ko apne husband se lari jo lagataar 1st wife se jhoot bol rha tha... aur baad me subha ko us ne car drive kar k accident kara dya... ab may bhi wo guse me na gai ho ho sakta hai us k husband ne use kaha ho k tum yanhan se jao aur wo gai ho aur uski car ki brakes fail kar di gain hon..ye ziyada aap ko wonhan k investigators hi bata sakte hain..bherhaal zimedaar dono hain... larke ko nai chaheye tha k wo doosri marriege kare bina apni bivi ko batae..its really wrong... aur 2nd bivi lahore ki wo ab kaisi hai wo usko pata hoga kiun k ye baat yanhan ham tak phonchi hai to unki to pata nai life kaise guzar rahi hogi... khair ye zindagi hai ek dokha ..ese jeena chaheye per gawana nai chaheye wo bhi kisi shaks ki waja se... Allah us k angle ko raahat de use kabar k azaab se mehfooz rakhe aaur har mushkilaat aasaan farmaye. ameen.

Orat ka ziada kasoor hai.

I DISAGREE with all those who are saying MARD KA ZIADA KASOOR HAI.

Agar mard dosri shadi k kabil hai, dono wives ka kharcha bardasht kar sakta hai aur physically bi apnay apko fit samajhta hai aur dono wives say acha aur brabari ka salook rakh sakta hai aur acha salook rakhnay ka irada rakhta hai to according to islam, usko dosri shadi ki ijazat hai..

Allah says, “Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four.” (An-Nisa’: 3)

ab mairi nazar mai kiski ghalti ZIADA hai wo mai btata hon:
pehli bat to ye k second marriage k liye bv say ijazat laina zaroori NAHI hai,, lekin agar wo mard pehlay apni 1st wife ko razi kar laita usko bta deta to bi acha tha...

leklin agar koi mard btaye baghair dosri shadi kar lay to iska matlab ye NAHI k pehli bv paglon ki tarah larnay lag jaey ya khudkushi kar lay YA apnay husband ko hi maar day..

is banday ki first wife say kuchh ghaltian hui hain:

1- iski wife ko ye samajhna chahiye tha k jab Allah nay second marriage ki ijazat di hai to phir ye kon hoti hai is waja say divorce lainay wali ya khudkushi karnay wali...

2- behtar tha k ye second wife say achay tareekay say milti aur usay dost bana laiti... usko accept kar leti, lekin isnay aisa na kia..

3- Husband ko btaye baghair ghar say bahir chali gaee, halakay orat ka Mehram k baghair bahir jana mana hai.

4- Husband ki ijazat k baghair uski car lay kar akaili chali gae aur uski car barbaad kar di...

5- Iskay ghussay nay iskay husband say uski bv chheen li, jis say wo bohat pyar karta tha.

ye uski bv thi aur husband is say pyar karta tha, wo apni bv ko achi tara samajhta tha, so husband nay apnay legal kaam (second marriage) ko bhi chhupaya, ta k iski first wife ko ghussa na aye...

ab inki death ho chuki hai so Allah inki maghfirat farmaye (aameen). lekin second marriage agar koi kar lay to itna ziada ghussa karna achi bat nahi hia.

Josh bhai

Bewafa

Beshak doosri shadi ka Mard ko haq hai aor iske liye Islam mein pehli wife se ijazat lena zaroori nahin, magar phir bhi Mard ko apni pehli wife ko etmad mein le kar yeh shadi karni chahiye thi. Magar main is mein Mard se ziada 2nd wife ko ziada qasoor war samajhta hoon, woh to ek aorat thi usko to doosri aorat ki feeling ka to ehsas hona chahiye tha.

here2care

mera khayal

dhoka ya jhoot bol k koi b sahi kam he kion na kia jaye woh ghalat hai

Maria

Mard ya Aorat

Firdaus

my opinion

dosri shadi karne mein koi harj to nai hai magar husband apni wife ko aitmaad mein le kar dosri shadi karta to baat sahi thi magar us ne yeh baat apni pehli wife se chupaye to woh qasoor waar hai kyo k larki jo jab pata chalega to woh shock to hogi hi na woh sochegi k mujh mein aise kya kami thi jo us k husband ne dosri shadi ki ya mera husband mujh se beezaar hai ya use ab koi aur pasand hai kyo k husband ko agar apni wife se love hota to woh dosri shadi karne ka sochta hi nahi agar kisi majboori k tahet ki thi to pehli apni first wife ko batana chahiye tha phir woh dosri shadi karta to sahi tha aur us ki second wife ko bhi sochna chahiye tha k jis se mein shadi karne ja rahi hooo woh pehle se shadi shuda hai ya itna karti k pehli wife ko bata kar shadi karti ta ke kisi bhi wajah se kisi ka ghar barbaad na hoo mere nazdeek husband aur 2nd wife dono hi qasoor war hain

both

bewafa ourat he hay

bewafayi

bewafayi

LARKI alwayz bewafa