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wasif ali |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:4th May 2009, 6:12pm |
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 Extra Marrital Sex: Is That Baby Of Mine Or Some Body Else?
AOA,(kindly attension)
Sir i have getting marriage since last year in 16th march,now appox 13 or 14 months and i have a sweet beautifull cute baby now which is 5 months old.
The question is this on my wedding night my wife could not bleed and pain then i ask her she said i dont know about it i did avoid it and done sex with her she got pregnancy now can u tell me wat is going on i am little bit confused i never ask her again that can u tell me is this baby is mine for my satisfaction becaz my baby appearance are not like me or my family, will u solve me that wat is the right way and how can i confirm my mind for this baby is mine....and one thing more is after delivery of my wife she did not getting menses till now kindly tell me why this happening and if it is then when will she got her periods.
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m.iftikhar |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Feb, 2009 Topic: 2 Post: 70 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 2:49am |
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IFTIKHAR bhaijan aap ki baat sun k boht afsos huwa log AULAD jesi nemat ko taraste hain aur aap ko ALLAH ne aulad di to aap apni wife pe shakkarte hai k ye mera bacha hai k nhe ...sharm ki baat hai boht...bhai ye zaruri nhe k shadi ki raat jab aap karo to wife ko dard ho bleeding ...larkiyo ki hymen kam umer mai bhi un k khelne koodne ki waja se rupture ho jati hai aur aksar larkiyo ko ye baat pata bhinhe chalti ho sakta hai aap ki wife k sath yahi huwa ho bhai shak mat karo zaruri nhe bacha baap pe he jaye kuch bache apni maa se milte hian kuch baap se mlte hain ..masla ye hai k apa ko shal ki bemari hai apna shak khatam kardo warna nuqsan uthoge........ |
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wasif ali |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 9:03am |
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wasif AOA,
iftitikhar bhai u cant understand me this is not the metter aap na apni age k hisab sa bat ke hai u r unmarried magar achi bat ke hai thats good i appritiate u and one thing i told u that ms shaki qisam ka banda nahi hon i am getting happy married life and my wife is so good and lovely i never ever ask her like this converstaion i love my baby very much from the depth of my heart, but i ask to doctor as he said in web site especially for Pakistani and Indian shy men, women, boys and girls who did not know about any medical confusion every person have right to free for these kind of tension
yeh dunya hai mairay bhai is dunya ma acha b hai aur bura b hai magar jab confusion ka pata chal jata hai to phir agay say life ma ghalti ki gunjaish nahi rahti aur insaan mohtaat rahta hai kisi b anjaan ghalti say aur dosron ko b baaz rakhta hai.
jo ho gya us ka to nahi kuch kiya ja sakta magar agay sa to theek kiya ja sakta hai ya mairi soch hai zaroori nahi k her insaan ki aisi he soch ho.i think u understan me well now.
and please if there is doctor advise me then i will b thankfull to him also tell me the mensis problem of her ...waiting
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SHR |
Group: Members Joined: 05th May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 26 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 11:25pm |
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aoa plz apne wife pay shack na karain
zaroore nae features sy pata chaly baby is yourz or somone else...... |
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SHR |
Group: Members Joined: 05th May, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 26 Age:
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| Posted on:5th May 2009, 11:26pm |
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aoa secnd thing is that,hymen reputrued k baray main yaha bht info ha read it plz
zarorree nae ha bleed karna wife ka
its based on mny reasons.. |
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Doctor K K |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 12:44am |
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re: Extra Marrital Sex: Is That Baby Of Mine Or Some Body Else? Till the time people dont realize that hymen rupture and bleeding on wedding night is least important as far as marrital relations are concerned, these problems remain poping up on and off. A man can judge the character and what happened in previous life even via spending some time with some body. Is it necessary to judge some body on the grounds whether or not she has got bleeding on wedding night? |
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mna1978 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Jan, 2009 Topic: 15 Post: 383 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 1:45am |
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wasif ali Wasif sab i totally understood your problem and i do not agree with the above replys but one thing in all the replys is right, you can not judge by bleeding or pain that some body is vergin or not... it is totally wrong...
One thing that i felt in your post was that you have lots of love for your wife and baby... so i will go to your answer strigh away....
Now to your question one by one...
wedding night my wife could not bleed and pain
Agree to the above reply... it is not sign of virginity... and honestly speaking my wife did not also... and i have full trust in her... and never talked to her about it... not a single time...even though she is out of family and it is totally arranged marriage because her love, care for me... and the good time we are spending is lot more important to me then her past...
my baby appearance are not like me or my family
This is not true that baby should look like the parents... when the baby is too young the look of baby change very frequently... and when a child is mature only then the true looks are reveled... Juts take your and your brothers child hood picture, and compare them with right now... right now you will look a lot like them as compared to childhood... so do not worry...
how can i confirm my mind for this baby is mine
The only way is to conduct he DNA of your child and your self... i am not saying that you should go for the test... no way... i just want to reply medically.... that DNA test can confirm it... and mind you it is very expensive and no lab will do a walk in parenthood test... they only do that when ordered by court.... i know a lab in Islamabad and they have this policy.. my friend used to work there.... he told me that a lot of people used to come for this test but doctor(owner) refused them.... without the court order....
my wife she did not getting menses till now kindly
It is normal for breastfeeding mothers... but if she is not breastfeeding and she thinks that she should have priods, then she should consult a god gynaecologist
Conclusion
Ap kay mutabiq aap aik achy life guzar rahy hoo... to please in masloon main na paro... aur Is achi life kay leya ALLAH ka sukar ada karo... aur khud apny hathoon say is achi life ko tabah na karoo.... Baki mery reply say aap ki andaza ho geya ho ga.. aap ka shuk theek nhi hai(in my thinking) so do not further investogate as it may be very harm full for your happy life....
ALLAH aap ko kush raky.... |
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wasif ali |
Group: Members Joined: 04th May, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 5 Age:
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| Posted on:6th May 2009, 5:28pm |
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wasif AOA,
Very nice and informatic conversation which i had got from there as u understood i love my family very very much and also trust her just like u aik cheez k agar husband ya wife ma koi garbar ho to pata to chal he jata hai observation achi ho to koi b bat daki chupi nahi rahti becaz 24/7 we are together,...but i think there i gain one thing if we can explore our islam religion tell us marriage for every person just becaz to avoid extra negitive activities but the thing is this it show us the past present and futur of avery person in this world it tell us that when u got married after that look at ur present and futur if there was any negitive issues of any person in past it is not related with present and futur even that u trust and spend life with the right way of islam after marriage if any person still do extra kind of negitive activities then GOD will punish him or her we are no right to judge and punish hime or her for sin,so i got that just look at ALLAh and his way to spend life but important is this that also told averybody to spend his or her life just like our gra8 prophet Muhammad peace b upon him.baqi sab kuch ALLAH per chor do.
am i right i think i am.
any ways thank you for all nice talking cu tc byebye
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