28. Har insan chahta hai kay isski mistakiss par issko maaf kar diya jaye. Maaf karna sunnaat hai. Allah ko pasand hai. Quran mein irshad hai: "Logon ko maaf karo takay mein tumhen maaf karon" lihaza sunnaat par amal karte howe apne liye apni biwi ko maaf kar den takay Allah aap par rehem karey.
29. Islam mein sakht naafarmani par biwi ko marne ki ejazat hai magar mu'nh par marne sey sakhti sey manaa kiya gaya hai. Marne ke liye bahane naa dhundne sey bhi sakhti sey manaa kiya gaya hai.
30. Biwi kay hawaley sey apnaa ghussa collect naa karein. Yeh aap ki health ko effect karega. Aleydgi mein biwi sey apne ghussey ka izhar karein. Iss waqt tak baat naa karein jab tak aap pursukoon naa ho jayen. Agar woh mazrat kar le to qubool karlen. Allah kay nabi Hazrat Muhammad(P.B.U.H.) ne mazrat qubool naa karne sey sakhti sey manaa kiya hai. Darguzar sey kam len. Ghussa khatam karne ke liye biwi ko ghssey sey bhara ek letter likhen, jo kehnaa chahte hain, kahain, issko ek bar read karlen aur phir phar kar phaink den. Letter biwi ko naa dein. Aap pursukoon ho jayege. Behtar yeh hai kay ghussey ka directly izhaar naa karein. Iss sey aap ke relaations improve hunge. Aap iss Tareeqey sey bhi ghussa nikal kar relax ho sakte hain:
Mushq No.4
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