Question:

One of my relative who is young, on job and has got married three years back, has been feeling sorrow since some times. After enquiring it is revealed that since some times he is not getting pleasure during intercourse with his wife, however; he loves her a lot. Is there any way by which he could increase his pleasure? 

Answer: 

Every husband wants to enhance his sexual awareness. No body is born with such type of awareness in this world, however; a discreet husband would learn these things by the reaction of his wife. He keeps on increasing his ability that to provide the sexual pleasure to his wife and in return get the pleasure from her. You have mentioned the relations of his wife with one of your relatives. It could be possible that they don't have any apparent quarrels and they don't get much more quarrels in their domestic life. However; in order to get the sexual pleasure in real sense, the most important things are caring, sincerity and politeness. The highest central element of sexual pleasure after marriage is the ideology that has to be imposed to the wife that she is most charming for her husband. Till the time when wife would not be satisfied that there is no need by husband, however; this charm of wife that induce the husband for sexual contact, she would not become a good life partner and the sexual contact would remain un-pleasant. The psychological harmony should be increased among husband and wife. Due to that, they become more charming for each other. The role of wife is not less important as far as sexual intercourse is concerned. Her participation, co-operation, reaction and bringing the attention towards her likes play the key role in making the sexual relation high standard and pleasing.