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Group: Members Joined: 18th Jul, 2007 Topic: 303 Post: 1941 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2008, 9:58am |
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 Marriage & Sex: Your First Night
First Night Sex
couple ki life me first night humesha anxiety, nervousness, hesitation se filled hotti hai aur kitnay questions hotay han jo aap ke mind me creep up ker rahay hotay han laikin aap proper guidance aur information se apni first night ko memorable bunna saktay han.bahot saray logon ke liay first time unpleasant hotta hai.ager ye arrange marriage ho tu first night strat laina aur sexually motivated honna bahot hi difficult ho jatta hai laikin aik baat yaad rakhain – sex first night ko important nahi hai,baap aik doseray ko achi tara janain aur easy feel kerain aik doseray ke saath.aap aik doseray ko touch,kiss aur explore ker saktay han but sex sirf tab kerain jab comfort dfeel ker rahay hon.under pressure sex thiek nahi hai aur es se bitterness aur disappointments hotti han.ye yaqqeen ker lain ke aap aik doseray ko understand kertay han aur aik doseray ki feelings aur desires ki respect kerain.however wo couples jo pelhay se aik doseray ko jaantay hon un ke liay first time easier hotta hai,aap aik doseray ki likes aur dislikes ko jaantay hottay han aur aik doseray ke saath zyada comfort feel kertay han. Kuch women pain aur bleeding bhi experience kerti han kuin ke insertion se hymen break hotta hai.ye sub es liay hotta hai because aap ki body first time aisay emotions aur extreme passtions ko experience kerti hai laikin time ke saath ye sub sahi ho jaata hai.laikin aap apni first night ko apni pori life ke liay really special aur cherish bunna saktay han. Neechay kuch questions han jo aap ko bother kertay han: Will it hurt the first time? Will I bleed?
ye zyada common question hai jo girls kerti han.aur answer yes hai kuin ke jab aap first time sex kerain gi tu aap ko bleeding bhi ho gi aur aap thora sa hurt bhi hon gi.laikin ye bhi saach hai ke her happiness ke peechay little pain hai.bleeding es liay hotti hai kuin ke girl ka hymen hai aur tu wo first time sex se break hotta hai.kabhi kabhi kuch ladkioon ka hymen already sprots,exercise ya horse riding se rupture hua wa hotta hai ya kisi ladki ka by birth hi hymen nahi hotta.laikin right touch aur right partner ke saath,aap es qabil hoon gi ke first night ko pain ke binna enjoy kerain.waqt lain,khud ko force mat kerain,lubricant use kerain aur apnay husband ko guide kerti jayain.un ko batayain kab acha feel hotta hai aur kab hurt hotti han plus sex ko pain ke torr per mat lain sex pleasurable hai aur pleasure ko feel ker ke pain ko overcome kerain aur sex ko enjoy kerain. Am I ready for sex?
ye aik aur question hai jo aap ko bother kerta hai,aur aap ye sooch sakti hank e ye right time nahi hai ya aap ko wait kerna chahiay abhi aap sure nahi han.ager aap soochain ke aap sure nahi han tu khud ko sex kernay ke liay force mat kerain kuin ke ye sirf aap ko hurt keray gi.kitnay ways han jis se aap sexual pleasure day bhi sakti han aur hasil bhi ker sakti han sexual intercourse kiay binna.kuch people ke liay massage,kissing aur hugging sexual intercourse se bhi zyada passionate aur fulfilling hotta hai.tu zyada important ye hai ke aap aik doseray ki company me comfortable hon aur aik doseray ko sex ke liay ressurize mat kerain jab aap ready nahi hone s ko kernay ke liay.jab aap aik bar ready hon tu ye kerain aur mera believe kerain ke es tara time zyada fulfilling aur memorable ho ga.
How do I have "good" sex?
es ke liasy kya important hai wo ooper discuss ho chukka hai ke aap aik doseray ki company me relaxed aur comfortable hon aur kisi pressure ke binna sex kerain.kuch worries feel kerna natural hai but e ski key good communication hai.relax hon aur apnay partner se cheezain share kerain jo may be pelhay se nervous ho tu aap dono ki tension dour ho gi.aur koi rules nahi han sex ke liay jo aap ko follow kernay hon.sex ke baray me rules impossible han—jo cheez matter kerti hai wo ye hai ke aap jis se acha feel kerain aur saath jo save sex ki baat hai tu ap worry nah on ke aap pregnant hon gi ya aap ko koi disease ho gi.
Will I be a good lover?
es question ke baray me bikul bhi worry nah on.acha lover hoona automatically aur immediately nahi hotta.es ke liay aap ko time ki zuroorat ho gi aur of coursr right partner, patience, time,care aur practice se aap definitely good lover ho jayain gi.aap ka first time aik doseray ke saath fumbling, embarrassing aur awkward ho ga,laikin hopefully ye aap ki baki ki life ke great time ka start hai.
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 58 Post: 4088 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Sep 2008, 11:00pm |
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sooth jee jaha app nay kuch achay article lekhay waha per app koo is article koo lekhnay kee kiya zarrorat thee..........ma nay too sara article read kiya ha leekan ma nahi samj saka kay app boys and girls koo kiya massage convay kerna chati through this article..........can u explain plz.........
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rajmallik4 |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Sep, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 3:39pm |
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sooth Mrg sex topic sooth i apperciates u well done
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jfk206 |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Sep, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2008, 9:11pm |
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 HOW TO CONTROL HAND PRACTICE?
Q: ANSWER ME HOW TO CONTROL "HAND PRACTRICE"? and how many time shud i do hand practice in month so tht i cud not defect?
answer me
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13614 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2008, 2:47am |
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jfk yar ap ka question is thread k topic se related nahi hai
is liye ap ko yahan jawab nahi diya jaye ga
alag se post keryen |
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sweetpari |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Nov, 2011 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Nov 2011, 7:11pm |
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sex with wife without her permission
Salm Mera sawaal hai kay agr wife ka mood na ho or wo upset ho uska husband sex ky liye boly or wife inkar kry kay mujy nai krna par uska husband force kry or zabardasti sex kr lay to kia yeh thek ha...jab wife nai bol rahi sex krny krny ko husband ko understand krna chahiye kay kuch problem hogi ya wo q upset hai usy sex kii parhi rahy khud mazay lay lay or wife ka na sochy to yeh zayadati hai na wife kay sath..husband hony kay naty zarori nai us par apna hukam jitlay.... plz reply to my this question....I am angry with husband usny force kr kay mery sath kia usko khayal b nai tha kay ma upset q ho usy bas apna kam krna tha jo usny kr lia.:( |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Aug, 2011 Topic: 12 Post: 3192 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Nov 2011, 7:31pm |
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husbands force sex is not Oppression Ziadti, kisi ghayr se hon toh ziadti hoti hain. Wife ka husband ko sex ke liye inkaar karna, islam ijazat nahin deta. Husband ne agar apna Right samaj kar aap ke saath sex kia bhi toh woh waqaye main husband ka Right hi hain, jho aap ne Deny kar ke, sahi nahin kia.. If you are a Muslim, than you should be Careful regarding duties to your husband. Lekin agar aap Muslim nahin, than Please Forgive Me.. for thinking you were....
"husband hony kay naty zarori nai us par apna hukam jitlay...." Wese husband ko aap ka khayal kar ke, aap se baat cheet karni chahye thi.. ye mera apna personal khayal hain.. Lekin aap naraz hon ya na hon.. unless aap ki wahaan bleeding hain, in any other matter which is not bleeding, a wife cannot say No to her husband for sex..
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aisha20 |
Group: Members Joined: 24th Nov, 2011 Topic: 1 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Nov 2011, 7:57pm |
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he cant force you. vaise aapko na kehna allow nahi hai aur aapne na kehdiya to unko sabr karna chahiye tha vo aapko iss cheez kelie force nahi karsakte. Ye allow nahi hai islam mein. |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Aug, 2011 Topic: 12 Post: 3192 Age:
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| Posted on:27th Nov 2011, 9:15pm |
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aisha20 my dear.. aap ko kisne kahaan ke ek shoher apni wife se by force sex nahin kar sakta? aur ke ye islam jaiz nahin? who told you this or where u read? |
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System |
Group: Members Joined: 03rd Jun, 2008 Topic: 40 Post: 2243 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Nov 2011, 12:03pm |
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aisha husband is allowed to have sex when he desire and wife should cooperate with him... when you are married then forced sex wording do not apply there.. if wife deny sex to her husband without any physical or mental reason then you are disobying islam laws.
But personaly i wouold say a husband should also respect his wife and think if she is too tired becuase of all day work. Or she is sick not feeling good, Sad because of some tragedy. A husband should respect his wife as an equal humin being.
Husband can be forgiven if he treet well his wife at the day of judgment. |
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alirajput |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Aug, 2011 Topic: 12 Post: 3192 Age:
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| Posted on:28th Nov 2011, 1:40pm |
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well said by system Mashallah, i loved the middle part...about husband respecting wife.. |
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