 Influence of Marital Life of Parents on Offspring
Influence of Marital Life of Parents on Offspring
Hum sub ye jaantay hen ke parenting styles child ke behavior aur life ki quality ko determine kerta hai.tu often hum aisay children ko dekhtay hen jo ke cranky ya problematic hottay hen aur hum conveniently bad parenting ko blame kertay hen,phir ager foundation strong ho tu aik popular believe hai that environmental influence ko face kiya ja sakta hai.aur ye blame right hai because personality 2 essential factors se compose hotti hai;heredity aur environment;ye dono bhi greater influence rakhti hen tu question phir bhi rahta hai.nature-nurture debate on hai, laikin psychologists ke according personality composition me ye dono equal role play kertay hen.
Idher aik aur baat bhi main add kerti hoon ke offspring per immediate environment aur heredity ke equally strong influence ke saath jo cheez major contributor hai wo parents ki marital life hai.
Jaisay ke Sigmund Freud psychology ka father rightly propagate kerta hai ke man ye wish kerta hai that us ski wife me us ski mother ka reflection nazer aye aur female father ke attitudes ko spouse me dekhna chahti hai.so hum TV advertisement me bhi e ski explanation find ker saktay hen jab husband mistakenly apni wife ko mum call kerta hai because food uss ko mother ki yaad dilate hai aur wife delighted ho jaati hai that uss ne finally food me wo flavor achieve ker liya hai jo uss dear mother-in-law ka tha.
but ye itna seat nahi hai kuin ke es ki jaga dear ko bhi spell kiya ja sakta hai.
Aik psychotherapist ke according uss ne kaheen couples aisay dekhay hen jo marital life me problems face kertay hen.aur aik common expectation spouse ki teruf se ye hai ye wo aisa behavior show up kernay ki koshish kerta hai jo opposite sex person ke parent ka hotta hai.ye unconscious level per bajot saray people es idea ko reject ker saktay hen.kuin ke personality pressure exist kerta hai tu es hi tara parents ki marital life me bhi hotta hai.
Ager aik individual apnay parants ko dissatisfied marital life me dekhta hai tu woe s ko apni life me 2 tara oppose kerta hai either uss se hate ker key a phir ye sooch ker ke wo apni life me aisa nahi keray ga;ye zyada cases me hotta hai.laikin unconscious feeding es ko easily hoonay nahi daiti, ur es ka end ye hotta hai ke wo person uss se zyada yak am same behavior apni life me kerta hai.
Ye sub psychological process unconscious level per hootay hen aur routine behavior me nahi nazer aatay.
Aur phir ye bad couple life aik catalyst ke torr per act kerti hai jo ke generation ko spoil ker daiti hai.wedding ke bond ke liay partner per trust aur relation require hotta hai.so TV per family soups ke advertisement ko thanks jo ke parants ko es sacred commitment me train kertay hen ke wo cleaver ki tara act kerain aur baki part parents ki unfruitful conjugal bonds se hotta hai.
Jab parent children ke samnay doseray ke baray me ill words use kertay hen,ye sub evils se gravest kert hai,jo ke parents aur children me faith aur trusy ko khatum ker daita hai.kuin ke parants first people hottay hen jin ko individual first aik saath without kisi blood relation ke dekhta hai,tu gradually faith fades ho jaata hai.es ke ilawa jab pairs fight kertay hen,ye children me depression,anxiety aur guilt paeda kerta hai.
Problems ko point out kerna easy hai but un ke solution ki key provide kerna tough hai.meray opinion me es ka solution basics me hai,es ka meaning ye ke humaray fore fathers ke ways ko adapt kerna aur in relations ko under cover rakhain.es se ye baat samnay aati hai ke marital life problems,sorrows,secrets aur experiences ko rooms ki walls ke ander hi rakhain.private boundries se bahir couple ko aik doseray ko unconditional respect daini chahiay aur grieveances ko public me address kenay ki attempt nahi kerni chahiay.
Children ka arrival family ko expand kerta hai,laikin parents ke according aisa nahi hoona chahiay ke"hum pelhay 2 thay aura b 3 hen".pair ko 2 ki tara rahna chahiay,aur addition generation me hooni chahiay couple me nahi.
Ye eyes open kernay ka high time hai aur betterment ka aik step hai ya phir es ka end much hight divorce rate ho sakta hai aur facts jin se ye patta chalta hai ke marital dissatisfaction apni peak per ho gi.
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