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I married a year ago. My wife is 3 months Pregnant. I love my wife madly but ever since my wedding day i couldnt understand my wife. if she has a psycho problem or if my love is not enough for her or i dont know if its something else. once she left home without telling anybody and without any specific reason. She behaves odd at times. Like if I wanna make her understand something (I feel) she always thinks that i am degrading her and I want her to be my slave(many bad thoughts its just an example.) She behaves abnormal on times like with widely spread eyes full of tears she asks
"I am what I am leave me if you cant tolerate"
and I will always say "ok relax , calm down no problem, I beg you please dont do it again why you are making a storm over nothing. ok take your time may be you'll feel better tomorrow" But that tomorrow comes when she changes her mood. why she has such abrupt mood swings? I dont know?
The situation has gone so complicated that even her brothers and sisters cannot understand what has happened to her. She makes firm and wrong decisions. her sister thinks that it is due to excessive love that i have showed to her. Because she faced many prior marriage problems like rejection and broken relations.
I often do things to make her please like going out, going for diners, small gifts on small events and she also admits that I am very good to her very loving and very caring but she could not understand where the problem is?
Now she has gone to her Mom house for the last 20 days and she is not ready to come back she gives no specific reasons for that. On proposal of my sister in law i threatened her by sending her Haq-e-Mehr and luggage back. I didnt talked to her for last 15 days.
i am so depressed what should I do? Is there a solution to

JustFine

Group: Members Joined: 31st Mar, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 21 Age: 27

Posted on:4th Apr 2013, 7:01am

Asif

Yes Its really complex situation ..

But You need to involve your elders to know what she want .....because you seems failed here....but keep behaving politely...Thanks

SAD LADY

Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 22 Age: 34

Posted on:5th Apr 2013, 7:20am

asif bhai

asif bhai app ko parshan hony ki zaroorat nahin hy.

uger app phly baar baap banny waly hain tu ya normal hy ik urat kay leeya kay jab woo Pregnant hy tu urat ki feeling bohat kharab ana shuroon ho jaty hain kion kay baby ban raha hota hy is leeya us ki feelings tabdeel hoty rahty hain. subha uur hoty hain sham ko uur hoty hain. her ik lamha uur hoty hain ya normal hy.app ko one year understand karna ho ga

parshani ki zaroorat nahin hy.app ki bivi paghul nahin hy.

kion kay ik insan kay ander say ik insan janam ly raha hota hy .kitny big baat hy is leeya app na parshan hoon. app ko samajna chahya.

apny docter say baat karin. uur mashwarah lain.

freash food ka istymal karin.uur app un ka khyal raghin. uur ghusa nahin karna. mukamal demaghi sakoon hona chahya. phly 5 month main app ko bardashta karna ho ga.

bus app ko samajna chahya.

uur ghush hoon app baap banny waly hain allah app ko neek ulad dy.

app kay gher khushi aa rahy hy

app dosre baton par tuwajjo na dain

bus un ka khyal raghin uur un ki halat ko understand karin.allah app ko himmat dy ik porah sal.

baki parshani ki zaroota nahin hy this is normal.

SAD LADY

Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 2 Post: 22 Age: 34

Posted on:5th Apr 2013, 7:25am

bahi

app jalde say un ko wapas apny paas ly kar ain.

app khud jain .woo app kay bachy ki maan bany wali hy.

app ko khush hona chahya.

ya normal hy. please un ko wapas ly ain.

appna gher na barbad karin.

woo sencetive hoo gee hain.

app un ki halat ko samjoo,

uur jalde say un ko wapas ja kar ly ain. basak app ko soree bhai karny pary tu.

jab app un say muhabat karty hain tu kis baat ki parwaha hy app kol

un ki kogh main app ka bacha paal raha hy

chalo apni khater nahin apny masoom jaan ki khater masoon ulad ki khater ly aoo.

jab woo peedha hoo ga tu kiya woo pay ga donya main maan baap ko alagh ya sath main

please apna gher na barbad karo/uur ly aoo apni bivi ko.

zaree gul

Group: Members Joined: 17th Mar, 2013 Topic: 2 Post: 35 Age: 26

Posted on:5th Apr 2013, 1:37pm

Asif111

salam bahi ..ap ki problem hy to bari but aap ko himat krni ho gi....aap wife ko kisi achi zahni dr ko dikhye...aur wife sy baat krna na band kry...aap ny khud to kaha k us ny bt sari problemz face ki hy ....aap us sy baat kry us ki problem suny kya krna cahti hy woh kya cahti hy...kya start sy hi aap ki wife eci hi hay ..?may be us k dil main koi darr hy jis k waja sy esa krti ho ..

aguyk

Group: Members Joined: 24th Oct, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 92 Age: 33

Posted on:17th Apr 2013, 2:15am

asif

yah it is common, pregnancy mein (specially first semester mein waisey hi harmones peak par hein) and your wife seems to be prone to harmonal problems, she needs medication, ofcourse pregnancy mein mediciation sirf extreme cases mein dee jaey gi, but after delivery, shee needs to be evaluated and given medicine warna merey bhai yeh kahani isi tarah chaltee rahee gi

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