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Sobeeyaa
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 2:37am |
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 Feelings of Wife on Husbands Masturbation
hi...may pehle bhi sawal kar chuki hou,,,lykin ab mujhe aisee batain chahiye jinse se may apni baat clear ker sakou...mere husband regulr musturbate kerty hain,pehly tao maante nahi thy...lykin ab maine kaee baar ouko pakrne ki koshish b ki hy,,lykin bach jate hain..ye may es liye kar rahi ti...k may ounko poora tim ,har lihaz se ounko khush kerny ki koshish ker chuki hou...lykin wo mere saath aisa q kar rahy hain...ounko q samaj may nahi aata k mera b dil hy,feelings hain..har raat ounse piyar ki bheeg q mangnee parti hy...ab may ounke saath baat karna chahti hou lykin kuch samaj may nahi aata k kiya karou....meri saari zindgi aise rote guzar ja ay gee,,may chahti hou k mujhe achi advise dain k meri azdawaji zindgi teek ho ja ay...ya koee faisla ho ja ay...es k baad wo musturbate karain ya jo marzi...plz suggest me wht shud i do....
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Red _Red
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Nov, 2010 Topic: 4 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 4:34am |
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masterbation: a curse I can truly understand ur problem as I've been a victim of such a cruel husband |
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Red _Red
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Nov, 2010 Topic: 4 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 4:40am |
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Dear Sobeya I also wanna know why these people encourage this masterbation over here...they dont know how such husbands ruin lives of their wives by ignoring them and being selfish....I m sure it is haraam in Islam |
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Red _Red
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Group: Members Joined: 24th Nov, 2010 Topic: 4 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 4:47am |
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advice I m not an expert but I can tell u from my personal experience that (unless he is a very nice person...which I dont think he is ) it is useless to wait for him to change....my husband never changed....I went thru a lot of emotional crises and mental torture coz I didn't have the courage to talk to him....but he knew everything in his heart coz I caught him red handed a lot of times....na chahtay huay bhi mujhay pata chal gaya...laikin main kuch bhi na kah saki...coz I was a very shy and typical eastern girl....but plz dont ruin ur life like i did....talk to him firmly...and then decide urself...people over here...plz help this sister coz she really needs it....sis if u dont mind would u like telling me when did u get marry..i mean how many years...and if u have any kids...May Allah help u |
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Sobeeyaa
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 9:04am |
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thx 4 such a nic reply meri shadi ko 2 saal hone waly hain,koee kid nahi...bohot dukh hota tha jub log apni shadi ki piyar wali batain karty or or jub hamari family may sab k babys howe tao may etna roti k kuch b kerne ko nahi...yaha tak neend ki dawaee khany lag gaee...phir aik din e c noorclinic k zariye pata laga or mainy apna ovlution sab test kiya...apne husband ki minnat ki...etni ki j se koee bheek mang rahe hou...abhi es october may hee may pregnent ho v hou...meri samaj may nahi aata k se baat shourou karou k ab last tim baat ker k sab clear ker dou...daikhne may bht masoom hain lykin.....ander se outny ajeeb hain...har tarah se ounko satisfy kerne ki koshish ki...log kehty ounko oral sex....lykin hath b ounki marzi ho tab lagany daity hain....ab may b ounse peechay hony lag gaee hou or bht duaa kerti hou k Khuda mujhe sabar de..plz koee mashwara dain jis se may onse seede baat karou or wo mukar b na ja ain.... |
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Umar47
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Apr, 2007 Topic: 2 Post: 8 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 10:02am |
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@ sobeya i thnk k ap k husband kisi nafsiati marz ka shikar hein ap ko un se baat to karni hoge chahe ap jitni b shy hon kun k ye cheez aise he k is mein chup nai raha ja skta ap un se baat karne ki koshish karein k bv k kya huqooq hein islam mein phr unhein kahein k kisi psychatrist k paas chalein
hamari duaein ap k sath hein Allah ap ko khush rakhe
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SSUMAIR
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Group: Members Joined: 17th Nov, 2010 Topic: 5 Post: 15 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 3:14pm |
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sobeya in my opinion aap uneh red handed pakden aur wahein aap unse puri tarah khool kr baat kren k akhir baat kya hai!kyu k aise to maanege nhi k aap ke husband musturbation krte hain.or satisfy krne ki koshish kren. |
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crazyboy2u
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Group: Members Joined: 03rd Sep, 2010 Topic: 1 Post: 227 Age:
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| Posted on:4th Dec 2010, 8:59pm |
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sobeeya?? sobeya ap pregnant be ho gain ha aur ap koo pher be yeah problem ha??ap kay mind may kuch dececssion ha aur ap kuch faisala kerna be chati ha per ap bat clear nahi ho rahi ha?ap clearly batain? |
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Doctor K K
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Group: Members Joined: 02nd Apr, 2009 Topic: 25 Post: 1969 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Dec 2010, 5:12am |
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Re: Feelings of Wife on Husband's Masturbation Kisi ko takleef dekar khud sukoon hasal kerna jaiz nahi hai. Aapkay husband khud lazzati say aap ko takleef pohncharahay hain. Aap sirf unko samjahain aur dua karein. Baqi Allah per chod dain. Allah Sabr Kernay Walon Kay Sath Hai. |
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Sobeeyaa
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Group: Members Joined: 11th Sep, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Apr 2011, 10:59am |
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married man and musturbation m fed up of these things......y my husband doing lik ths...i try alot....but he is not stoping ths habit...how to talk wd him ....m fed up...how to talk ...should i ignore him...but he does not understand tht i hav also feelings.......suggest me plz...wht should i do...m v.stress... |
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working
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Group: Members Joined: 27th Dec, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Apr 2011, 5:09pm |
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Solution for Your Problem Sobeeya
Well Sobeeyaa, You know I should tell you the reason he is doing these things.
listen ap ye note karo kay wo aisa ky kartay hongay obviously es kay peechay koi reason ho sekta hai... or Jab male musturbation kartay hai tu us ki ye waja hoti hai kay wo upni hi soch may koh jatay hai .. wo us cheez ko zehun may laatay hai jo wo ya tu waqti toor par hasil nahi kar sektay ya phir kabhi hasil nahi kar paatay.. aksar ukaat males jab XXX movies daikhtay hai tu phir us hi movie ko lay kar un ki actress ko lay kar sochtay rehtay hai.. Musturbation Shadi sy pehlay theek rehti hai lakin shadi kay bad bhi kartay rehana.. ghalat hai.. or es may ap ko un ki help karni ho gi.. wo estherhan kay ap upnay ap ko estherhan sy dressed up karo kay wo deikh kay hi parayshan ho jayien .. change yourself or your style.. ager ap kay husband thoray western touch ko prefer kartay hai tu note karo ye bat.. or jab wo ap kay sath room may hon tu Jeanx..Shirt.. Caprees.. and estherhan ki cheezien try karo.. use..different drinks .. .. keep loong nails.. and these type of stuff.. dont ask for SEx.. or somthing.. jst try these things.. in front of him.. use only those type of clothes in which you look sexy for him..and wo ap ko daikhnay kay liay khawiesh mahsoos karien.. theek hai na.. .. i can tell u more.. ideas.. and tricks to handle this situation.. me unmarried but mujay idea hai .. dont u worry . try this.. u wil get it ur solution.. he will be fine... and everything will be alryte..
take care.. if you want to ask more.. kindly contact. on -- |
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Group: Members Joined: 27th Dec, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 7 Age:
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| Posted on:18th Apr 2011, 5:10pm |
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email .....edit . ...
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goodmorals
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Group: Members Joined: 06th Mar, 2012 Topic: 0 Post: 104 Age:
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| Posted on:16th Mar 2012, 11:28pm |
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@ Red _Red yes i personally felt that in this forum habit of masturbation is encouraged and regarded as harmless. even doctors and moderators promote such things.
anyways why husband do masturbate ? i think if a man married with a quiet normal women then there is no reason left for his sexual in-satisfaction. because of excessive lust and fantasies which can not be or difficult to fulfilled with wife, man do masturbate.
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