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sarah. |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jan, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2010, 5:13pm |
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 I Touch My Self And I Watch Something Wrong on Net:What Can I Do?
sallam.. i was involved in my class fellow in university timing... n now we are engaged ALHAMDULILLAH... but we did many wrong thing... not real sex.. but touch n stuff.. we both know that it was vvvv wrong thing hum ne ALLAH se bohot maafi bhi maangi hai... n thats y hum mangni k baad miltay bhi nai hain k phir koi new gunnah na kamayain... but pata nia mujhe kiya ho gaya hai... i touch my self... bohot ajeeb se ho gai hoon gandi se... i do watch wrong things on net ... ALLAH se itni dua karti hoon k iss sab ki aadat khatam kar day.. but dont know how to control it... jab karti hoon tabb kuchh demagh main nai aata n baad main bohot gunah feel hota hai... ALLAH se itni maafi maangti hoon but baar baar ek hi gunah per tau ALLAH bhi naraz ho jata hai na...plzzzzzzzzzzzz tell me how to control my nafs... main nai chahti k mujh per ALLAH ka azaab aay... main bohot gunahgaar hoon plz koi dua mashwara kuchh bhi batayain how to get rid of all this... plzzzzzz i will be vvvvvvvv thankfull to u
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stranger_1 |
Group: Members Joined: 15th Oct, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 65 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Jan 2010, 11:47pm |
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Reply Dear Sarah,
First of all congrats on your engagement, and wish you best of luck for your upcoming married life!
Look sister, the problem you are having is a common problem that many a guys and gals are suffering through. The one and only solution to it is to do "TAZKIYAA-e-NAFS", I know this word seems so bookish and look to BIG & HARD when it comes to practicing it, but this is the only solution to it.
As you said you were in love with your college fellow and as a result you both are now engaged, Alhamdulillah. Islam aside, gunaah aside, har cheez ko side per rakh kar aik baar sochein kay:
- Jis insan sey ap itna pyaar karti hain, jis sey aap engaged hain, aap oos sey beywafai karkey net per ghair mardo ka porn dekhein gee?
- Kya aap apney aap ko apney fiance ki amaanat nai samajhti?
- Kya aap apney aap ko apney honay waaley husband, apney pyaar, apney soulmate, apney fiance kay liey bacha kar nai rakhein gee?
Inn sab baato kay ilawa masturbate karna, porn dekhna sakht gunaah hai, aur sab sey baree baat yeh kay masturbate karkey, porn dekh kay at the end aap kay hath mey kya hota hai? what do you get out of it? sirf sharmindgi aur ehsas-e-gunaah, isn't it? so yeh sirf ghaatey ka sauda hai.
Yeh aik daldal hai jis mey aap dhansti chali jaaein gee, but iss sey nikalna ziada mushkil nai hai, koi dua nai hai, sirf will power chaiyey, that's it. The best way to get out of it is to:
- Try to never be alone at a place, taakey na aap akeli hon, na aap kay dimagh mey ulti baatein aaein, aur na hi aap koi ulti harkat karein
- Baawazoo rehney ki koshish karein, n try to offer 5 times prayers
- Sex, gender difference, boys, aisy har cheez ko apney zehen sey jhatak dein
- Aur koshish karein kay aap ki shadi as soon as possible ho jaey because hazoor (S.A.W) ki hadees hai jis ka mafhoom hai kay jis ka nikaah ho gaya oos ka aadha eemaan mukamal ho gaya..
So behen sabar ka phal meetha hota hai, aaj sabar karo, kal tumhey bohut khushiyaan milein gee apney husband kay sath married life mey.. inshaAllah
Aur agar sabar na kia tou kuch aisa na kar baithna kay jis ka bad effect kal ko tumhari married life per bi ho.... aur woh hamesha ki halaal khushiyaan jo tumhey milney waali theen, Allah na karey oon per grehen lag jaey...
Wish you best of luck for the future and your practice to leave dis bad habit!
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usmanali74 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Jan, 2010 Topic: 3 Post: 29 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2010, 4:01am |
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sarah. The best thing to control your self is to try not to be alone. try to make your self busy is your hobbies and studies e.t.c
this thing will not going to end over night but it will reduce over the time and you will feel better for your self. |
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Hawk66 |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 54 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2010, 4:19am |
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Re: sarah. Agree with usmanali74
Dear Sarah,
Now a days most of the people have internet facility and youngs like to watch that stuff. Be cause thay have a lot of time to spend on internet. If you involve your self in some work like helping you mom at home etc. Than you will not get much time for these activities.
And try to shift your PC from your room to T.V lounge where other family members sit, you will not get an oppertunity to open that sites...
May Allah help you to overcome this problem |
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uqabi |
Group: Members Joined: 30th Jan, 2010 Topic: 0 Post: 2 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Jan 2010, 5:33pm |
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Re: sarah. Agree with Stranger 1 and usmanali
Lekin ek aur chez mie aap ko batata hon. Ager Aap ko aap ki Ghalat Adaad bhut tang karen tu iss ka Final Hal ye Hai k aap Rozey Rakhien (Fasting) Rozey Rakhney Se Insaan Ko Apni Nafs per Control Kerne Mie Madad Melti Hai. Rozey Ki waja se Insaan Ka Zameer Bhut Strong Hojata hai. Hamesha Apni Nafs Ki Mukhlifat kiya karen..
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Dextor LAB |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Aug, 2008 Topic: 4 Post: 33 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2010, 4:49am |
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 ALL IS WELL!!!!!!
SALAM All Brothers and sisters
i have an idea and it's very easy. mea yeah nahi kahoon ka Rozay Rakho, Tazkiya-Nafas karoo ya her waqat ba wazoo Raho Mahsa-Allah Sarry Allah K wali bethay hean form per Muft mashwra denay... I Believe that Namaz Perhnay sea Or khas tor per roza rakhnay sea insan burry kamon say mahfooz rehta hea per jab koi kissi kam ka edict ho jata hea to uss k liyea yeah sabb bohat mushkil hea or noor clinic ka form mushkil ko assan kernay k liyea banay gaya hea.
iss ka ik or wahid hal hea shadi as soon as possiable shadi ker lo else make some resistense against your habbits until you wil not get marry ok. there is no other easy solution for edicted person to get ride from it, swae Allah kee hidyat k. so do not make your life difficult or complicated, because every thing is fine if you want to see then alway watch love not bad shity movies ok...
There is one seggetion do not watch that metrial every day because it creats nagative energy jo k gussa , or nafrat ko barhatay hean or insan kee rooh bhi tabah ho jati hea i mean agar koi app say milly ga to app mea nagatice energy honay kee wajah say woh app say uljahn mehsoos kerray ga even negative energy kee wajha say app k merriege relation mea bhi masail peda ho saktea hean so becare full and try to get positive energy from Namaz and Drood Shareef. soon you will feel ALL IS WELL.. |
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jugnu1 |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jan, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2010, 8:42am |
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net porn MARAY LIEY B DUA KARAIN MARI B YEADAT HATAM HO JAEY
Moderator Note:Remember, using ALL CAPITAL LETTERS in posts is considered yelling and rude, plus it is difficult to read.
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sarah. |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jan, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2010, 10:35am |
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thanks sallam...thnx aap sab bohot achay hain itna theek mashwaray dieay... actually. I DONT watch porn stuff never ... its just a movie scene n stuff... but my problem is shaitaani khayal... koi dua nai hoti k iss se shaitaani soch bhi na aay? its true maire ander abb ajeeb ghussa n nafrat si aa gai hai... mujhe lagta hai jaise main depression main ja rai hoon..i was never like that... n shaadi itni jaldi possible nai hai... woh tau jab lark waalay kahain gay tab hi hoay gi na... now i try my best k namaz waghaira perhoon plz pray for my naik hidayat.. will be thank full |
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RJ333 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Jan, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 45 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2010, 12:11pm |
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if u dont mind may kuch kaho As salam o alikum
Sarah yeh buhoot achee bat hai k ap ko ehsaas hai k ap nay gunaah kia
to us gunaah k against may koi aissa kam karain jo ALLAH ko buhoot passand ho
k namaz papandi say pharain
Roza rakhain (nafeli)
Sadqa dain
Waldian ka Ehtram karain ( yeh kheny ka haq ahayad mujh ko nahin q k may aik buhoooot baqwas beta houn apny maan baap ka)
or koi kam karain to initail stage may apny dil say puchain k kia yeh sahee hai kerna khud pataa chal jay ga may docter nahin to mujh ko us chez ka nam nahin pataa jo mouth k ander hota hai haleq k pass jab wo tez ya aa hesta say helny lagy to ap samjh lena shetaan apko bhekha raha hai (its my opinion) its not confirm i was feel
dhekhain gunaah niki ko khthaa hai to apni niki ko isterha bhrahain or wo gunhaa ko khaii
aa hesta aa hesta gunhaa chorain
ap porn movies dhekhti hain lazmi discharge bhe hoti houn ge
to aissa iradaa karain k may porn movies nahin dhekhoun gi ya pher dischage nahin karoun ge
dono may say aik kam kerna chor dain
pher
bad may wo bhe choot jay ga remain buri aadat
dhekhaain gunaah ko aik sath khatam kerna hal nahin hai wo junooon hota hai or pher dubaraa addat par jati hai
per gunhaaa ko aa hesta aa hesta khatam kia jata hai
or mujh ko buhoot afsooos huwa k hum ladkey to theey is gunaah may hamaray yahaan ki ladkiaan bhe ho gain ap hamari taqet hain
girls like a symbol of modesty, peace, Rhemat from ALLAH
plzzz sister
just change ur life style
plzzz i want to request to all girls
plzzzzz
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sarah. |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jan, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2010, 3:23pm |
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hmm
sallam.... aap theek kehtay hain... main bhi yehi sochti hoon apnay ammi daddy ki izzat hoon woh itna piyaar daitay hain... n..... but yeh insaan jan boojh kar tau nai karta na.... main ne niiyaat kari hai ainda kabhi galat nia karoon gi na dekhoon gi n na touch... ap dua karna k main apnay ALLAH se iss waaday per kaim rahoon... thnx
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persona |
Group: Members Joined: 10th Jul, 2008 Topic: 0 Post: 121 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2010, 10:00am |
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sarah (5 things to do)
1. Abandon internet
2. Abandon cable
3. Watch Islamic lectures of Dr.Israr Ahmed and Dr.Zakir Naik (on regular basis)
4. Off course offer Namaz regularly and read Quran with translation
5. Get married as soon as you can
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RJ333 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Jan, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 45 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2010, 12:33pm |
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again mee dear once again me
aik sath khatam nahi hota sab kuch foren kerny k janoun may nuksan ho ga apka ap bas aahesta aahesta choroo ap he nahin
jitny bhe boys n girls hai un sab ko khe raha houn
aa hesta aahesta aik dam chordeny say us ki lazzat say nafret nahi huti or ahesta ahesta nafret kerny say yani chorney say us gunaah ka dam toth jata hai
aik bat yad aagai
Sharab haram islam may us wakt huwi jab islam k aye huwey 10 saal ho gay they
ager may galat na houn to yeh sahee hai
q 1oyear bad haram huwa?
AGER ALLAH TALA apny bandoun ko us wakt he khe deta to wo log chor dety per us say nafret utna nahi rakhtey is ley
10y ALLAH PAK nay apny bandoun ke terbiat ki. ilm sikhaya, sahe or galt ki tamez batai pher haram kahaa
or saboun nay khushi say qaboul kia q k saboun ko nafret ho gai the sharab say
ABU HURAIRA (R.A) SHARAB PI REHEY THE KESE NAY KAHAA AAYE HURAIRA SHARAB HARAM HO GAI WO HALF BOTEL PI CHUKEY THEY TAB BHE NASHA NAHI HUWA Q K NASH DEMAG K QABOL KERNY SAY HOTA HAI OR BOTEL TOR DE OR KAHAA MAY IS WAKT KA HE INTEZAR KER RAHA THAA.
demag hamara kharab ho gea hai Porn Movies dhekh ker
sab boys n girls say request hai jo jo gunaah chorna chaty hain un sab say
k aik Pakka irada karo k
discharge nahi karo gay ya porn movies nahe dhekho gay
or sath bheth k guna to her gis na karo ya apna gunaah kese ko na bataoun yaa galt batain falto ki batain kese say share na karo
q k yeh ap ko k zameer ko khokla ker dete haion or ap gandey insan ho jaty ho is ley ap apna gunah kese pay zaher na karo
or kese k samny to koi gunaah he na karou
kese bhe terha apny zameer ko zinda rakho
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RJ333 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Jan, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 45 Age:
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| Posted on:1st Feb 2010, 12:38pm |
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again mee Multiple Post Edited .... Moderator
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aflatoon618 |
Group: Members Joined: 27th Dec, 2009 Topic: 1 Post: 26 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Feb 2010, 11:24pm |
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simple solution
solution is so simple. dont be alone and cut your internet connection. na rahaiga baans na bajaigi bansri
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sarah. |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Jan, 2010 Topic: 7 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Feb 2010, 5:46pm |
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:) thanks every one |
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lmran.janu |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Feb, 2010 Topic: 2 Post: 29 Age:
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| Posted on:5th Feb 2010, 6:58pm |
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 Nasha Chorna Mushkil Nahe Becoz
Main Aik Drinker Boy Tha Bohut He ziyda Drink Kiya Karta Tha Har Rooz Drink Pay
Drink Sigrate Say Nafrat Hai Sirf Aik He Nasha Kiya Hai Or woh Hai Sharab Bus Us
k Elawa Nahe Lakin Sharab Main Bohut He Ghalt Roteen K saath Piya Karta Tha
Rozana Sharab Pay Sharab Kuch Samj Nahe Ati Thi Kiya Karo Lakin Jab Be Sharab
Peeta Tha Sirf Oper Waly Say Batain Karta Rehta Tha Or Apny Ap Ko Bura Bahla
Kehta Tha Zindagi Main Kahi Daffa Kahi Larkio Nay Kaha Chalo Sex Karain But
Nahe Yeh Tu Bohut Bara Gunah Hai Es Say Bacha Raha Lakin Sharab Muj Say
Chorny Nahe Hoie Jab Meri Age Thi 15 Years Tab Say Shoro Ke 20 Years Tak
Lagataar Peeta Raha Us K Baad Kuch Side Effect Howay Mainy Doctor Ko Check
Karraya Or Jis Din Check Karraya Tha Us Din Be Nashy Main Tha Doctor Nay
Kaha Tumhary leaver Ka Haal End Par Hai Es Liya Jetna Jaldi Ho Sakty Chor Do
Lakin Kabo Nahe Ho Sakta Tha Us K Baad Mainy Oper Waly Say Guzarish Ke K
Nekaal Da Mujy Es Azmaesh Main Say Nahe Jeena Hoty Es Tarah Kar K Kyun K
Jab Be Main Peeta Tha Mujy Bohut Dukh Hota Tha K Ajj Phir Mainy Oper Waly
Ko Dukh Dya Or Roota Or Hasta Na Tu Main Kisi Dukh Ke Waja Say Peeta Tha
Na Kisi Khushi Ke Waja Say Peeta Tha Bus Aik Adat C Ban Gayie Thi Lakin Jab
Be Peeta Oper Waly Say Batain Or Maafi Maango Bohut Late Raat Ko Chaht Par
Jaa Kar Oper Waly k Saath Laga Raha Or Us He Ko Kehta Raha Buss Kar Da Ab
Mujy Azmana Nahe Acha Lagta Mujy Aisa Kar K Phir Tuun Aisa Kyun Karrata Hai
Muj Say Main Jo Nahe Karna Chahta Kyun Nazdeek Lay Jata HAi Muj Ko Us K
Paas..... Or Akhir Aik Din Aisa Aya Mainy Oper Waly Say Promise Kea K Ab Tuun
Jo Jetna Marzi Azma Meri Puri Koshesh Hai K Main Teri Azmaesh Ko Ghalt
Estamaal Na Karo Phir Us K Baad Aaj Tak Mainy Drink Nahe Ke Shoro Shoro
Main Bohut Tang Hota Tha Lakin Control Kar Leta Tha Kahi Daffa Koi Dost Lay
Ata Chal Ah Mani Sharab Ka Program Hai Matlab K Oper Wala Meri Us Adat Ko
Muj Say Door Karway K Be Mujy Azmata Raha Lakin Mainy Apny Dosto Ko
Warning The Ager Tum Main Say Koi Be Mujy Sharab K Liya Bolata Hai Tu Samj
Lena Us Din Tum Ko Muj Say Bohut Maar Parny Wali Hai Us K Baad Dosto Ko Be
Yaqeen Ho Gaya K Yeh Ab Nahe KAry Ga Aisa Kyun K Un Ko Pata Hai Main Sirf
Aik Baar He Kehta Hoon Jo Karna Hai Woh Karna Hai Jo Nahe Karna Woh Nahe
Karna.....So Ap Nay Meri Tammaam Batain Par Lee Ap Nay Dekha Hoga Aj Kal
Kahe Doctor Drugs leave Karannay Ka Course Kara Rahy Hain Apny Client ko
Lakin Jab Client He Koshesh Nahe Karta Tu Doctor Jo Marzi Kar Lay Kuch Nahe
Hont Wala Es Liya Mujy Dekh Lay Mainy Koi Medicin Use Nahe Ke Or Nasha
Chor Dya Or Woh Nasha Chora Jo Mera Kheyaal Say Es Ka Ager Koi Addee Ban
Jaya Tu Nahe Chor Sakta Kyun K Time He Etna Ziyda Ho Gaya Tha Kaha 15yrs
Or Kaha 21yrs Main Chora Puray 6yrs Woh Be Regular Or Ajj Main Wohi Hoon k
Nafrat Karta Hoon Es Kaam Say Balky Mera Samny Ager Es Tarah Ka Koi Admi
Ata Hai Tu Main Us Ke Kafi Class Leta Hoon.... Oper Waly Say Bohut Muhabbat
Karta Hoon Or Crime Jaissay Kaamo Say Sakht Nafrat Hai Yeh Sari Nafrat Oper
Waly Nay Mera Dil Main Dali Hai..... Or Jaha Tak Sarah Jee Ke Baat Hai Tu Es
Tarah Kahe Larkiya Hain Or Kahi Larky Hain Jo In Kaamo Main Mobtala Hain
Yeh Be Aik Nasha Hai Jo Es Main Mobtala Hota Hai Tu Woh Karta Rehta Hai
Or Ager Mera Lehaaz Say Dekha Jaya Tu Duniya Ka Ghandy Say Ghanda Nasha
Ager Insaan Chahay Tu Chor Sakta Hai Es Main Koi Mushkil Nahe...Ager Ap Muj
Ko Dekhy K Aik Aisa Insaan Jis Nay 6Yrs Regular Drink Ke Ho Us Nay Yeh Nasha
Chor Dya Tu Ap Main Be Us Tarah Ke Salaehat Paida Ho Jaya Gey.. Or Es
Ghandy Kaam K Elawa Mainy Zindagi Main Or Koi Ghanda Kaam Nahe Kiya
Oper Waly Ka Bohut Shukar Guzaar Hoon K Us Nay Bacha K Rakha Or Agy Be
Bacha K Rakhy Baqi Azmaesh Main Dalna Tu Us K Kaam Hai Or Insaan Ka Kaam
Hai Us Ke Azmaesh Ko Ghalat Estamaal Mat Kary Lakin Jin Ka Emaan Kamzoor
Hoota Hai ABLEES MARDOOD Kahe Ka Us Say Ghalt Karwah K He Rehta Hai
Es Liya Apny Emaan Ko Best Banao Baqi Oper Waly Par Chor Do Becoz
( Allah Jo Chahay Woh Karta Hai )
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RJ333 |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Jan, 2010 Topic: 8 Post: 45 Age:
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| Posted on:9th Feb 2010, 12:48pm |
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gr8 imran nice
is may koi shak nahin ALLAH apney bandey ko her lehaz say check kerta hai
tum ko buhoot buhoot mubaruk ho
wasey tumharey chorney ki sab say bari wajha
yahee hai k tumharey dil may sharab achee chez nahin thee
or hamarey yahaan hum ladkey or ladkiaan porn movies ko dhekh dekh ker or discharge ho ho ker aadi ho cukey hain ab yeh gunah gunah nahin ladta bal k is ko kerny ko dil chata hai jab k is say nafret ho janei chayee
u r gr8
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