i want some frnds

mujhe nahi pata mujhe kya kehna he lakin dill chahta he sub kuch keh doon jo b mujhe pareshan kar raha he

main janti hoon yahan mujhe koi nahi janta r mera kooi esa problem b nahi he bass...

her insan zindaghi ghuzarne k liye kuch asool banata he k ye meri limits hain inko mujhe cross nahi karna r ye main kar sakti hoon  lakin

jub esa ho k bohat sara waqat ghuzar jae r aapko laghe k wo sab asool to ghalt the  shaid ,un per amal kar k kuch b nahi mila to bohat dukh hota he ..

dil chahta he chihne ko lakin aap  nahi cheeh sakte ,koi sunane wala nahi hota  r agar ho to aapko samajh nahi pata .shaid aap ko b laghe k main paghal hoon lakin aaj main bohat depressed hoon is liye socha yaha keh doon . kya zindaghi waqai bohat mushkil he ,mujhe to bohat laghti he.waqt guzarta hi nahi.

jo karna chahti hoon nahi kar sakti ,r ye ehsas mujhe tor deta he .

Miss sadness or sensible

well ur situation is very simple ... if u see from simple eyes. ...

coz jis situation say aap guzar rahi ho... usmay say normally 80-90% log guzartay hain ...

her insaan ki life may aisa time aata hai ...jub we feel tht wat we wanted .. we cant achieve ...

actually its not like tht ... actually hum log poori tarha koshish nahi kertay woh sub hasil kernay kay liyay jo hum chahtay hain.... we dont strive for which we want ...

Mohatarma aap depressed na hoon ... there is always good times in life and there is always bad times in life .....

aur asool ghalat nahi hotay ... lekin zaroori nahi aapkay asool aapko success bhi dilain life may .... haan lekin aapkay asool aapko kafi buri baatoon say jin say aap rukna chahti hain ... zaroor rok letay hainn ... and it proves tht ur principles for wat u stand for was rite ....

gladiator7

i agreed k sub log in tensions se guzarte hain lakin akhir kub tuk .aik waqat ata he sub theek ho jata he

aap tkeek keh rahe hain main ne waqai koshish nahi ki na adoori na poori coz main samajhti thi k mere koshish kiye bina hi her khushi mujhe mile ghi by the way of my family.

jub main college main thi to meri  mostly frnds r class mats ki kisi na kisi larke se frndship thi chahe kuch khud tuk i mean sirf phone ya kabi milne tuk ,r main unko mana karti thi k ese kaam na karain .coz mera khayal tha k agar hum ese kaam karain ghi to ALLAH ji khafa ho jain ghe r humain aainda life main koi problem ho ghi.main unko samjhati thi k time ane pr humare parents humare liye khud her khushi tlash karain ghe.wo kehti theen k wo sirf time paas karti hain

main ne kabi koi ghalat kaam nahi kiya even k kabi kisi larke se baat nahi ki sawae apne bhiyon k r ya phir yahan first time....r wo b is liye k ab mere paas meri frnds b nahi jin se share kar sakoon coz they aal r married and i m still there.there is no problem whith me i m not  haseen-o-jameel but beautifull .

phir mere saath hi esa q ho raha he k kisi ko b meri parwah nahi .time guzar raha he r her din k saath mujhe sirf ye tension he k lig batain karain ghe r kahain ghe k is ki age ziyada ho ghai he .

bas is baat ko face karne se mujhe dar laghta he

although i m of 25  lakin jo b mujhe dekhta he wo yehi kehta he k aap kon se year main hain r jub main batati hoon k graduation kar chuki hoon to koi yakin nahi karta ,i liook just off 22,23 years ,lakin main to janti hoon k main 25 ki hoon r baas ye sub se mushki sawal laghta he

r aghar main kehti hoon k parhna he to kaha jata he ab tumhari shadi karni he .r koi koshish b nahi ki jati

farigh reh kar tung aa ghai hoon

kabi main itni jolly hoti thi k agar aap pehle kabi mujh se baat karte to kabi mujhe miss sadness na kehte

abhi b koshish karti hoon k hansti rahoon r khush rahoon lakin kabi kabi esa ho jata he

lakin aainda koshish karoon ghi aap  mujhe miss sadness na keh sakain

ye he k main ALLAH ka shukar b karti hoon k mujhe mere is asool ki wajha se bohat sari mushkilon r gunahon se ALLAH ne bachaya he

Miss Sensible

i am really sorry ... if my comments of Miss sadness hurt u... i didnt mean in bad sense ....

sad hona koi buri baat nahi .... u see its part of life .... i am 30 yrs old and i have also been to very good times and very bad times and normal times ....

dekho aapnay jo kuch ub tuk kiya life may ... aur jin principles ko follow kiya ... woh sub theek thay .... aur u shud not repent on ur principles ... wat ever u stand for are very good principles of ur life .... aur zaroori nahi kay aapko koi khushiaan aa ker day ga ....

aap khudh apnay under khushi ko talaash karain ... u will find happiness within urself ....

aur family say udaas na hoon ... may be ur family is looking for the best person for u ... all parents want best for their daughters .... aur is wajaa say shayad late hoon... waisay eik tarha say yeh bhi hamari society ki eik beemari hai ... tht parents want best for their daughters jis ki wajaa say shaadi late ho jaati hai ....

for tht u can do this .... tht u can talk to ur sisters or ur mom ... and tell her tht u wana marry or may be in some hidden words .... is may koi burai nahi ... aur Allah nay yeh haq lerki ko diya hai ... dont worry ... i am religious myself but i know Allah allow women to tell their parents their choice ... and u r just asking ur parents to marry u which is nothing bad ... infact its good ... but may be due to shyness u cant tell ur parents directly ... so u can tell in hidden words or thru some friends or sisters ....

gladiator7

pata nahi lakin mera khayal he main kabi nahi keh sakoon ghi lakin

main ye chahti hoon k kam se kam phir mujhe parhne to diya jae

ya kuch r karne dain

jub main successfull women ko dekhti hoon to mujhe laghta he meri zindaghi ka koi faida nahi  koi aim nahi end per kuch b hasil nahi ho gha

bas zindaghi he r ise guzarna her guzar jae ghi

app kahain ghe ho sakta he meri family ko financial problem ho is liye  mujhe nahi parha rahe to ye problem b nahi he

r ye jo time waste ho raha he na mujhe is ka dukh hota he k main kuch b nai kar rahi

acha chorain ye aik jock sunain jo main ne aaj parha he

beta apne baap ko naseehat kar raha tha

aba jaan!cigherat (smoking) peena buri adat he mere ustaad kehte hain is se umar kam ho jati he

baap ne bete per aik nazar dali r kaha

beta is waqat meri umar 70 saal he r main 55 saalon se smoking kar rahe hoon meri to umar kam nahi hooi

bete ne ehtjaaj karte hoowe kaha

aba jaan ! yehi to baat he aghar aap smoking na karte hote to is waqat 80 saal k hote

hahahhhhhh

sensible

u know mostly problems starts when we dont share our problems with someone .... its sad to know tht u dont have any friends  ... so u cant share ur problems with anyone ...

u know aapki family say ziyada aapsay sincere koi nahi ho sakta and u shud talk to ur family ... may be to ur mom (if u dont have sis) ... tht u wana study more ... if she says tht there is no need to study more than u can tell her tht u getting bore at home ... wat else u have to do... so u can tell her in funny way than they shud marry u instead

sensible

nice joke .... but ur life is not joke ... talk to ur parents ... tell them tht u wana do something .... it will be good ... abhi tau aap baat hi nahi ker rahi ho.... is tarha tau masla hal nahi hoga

u will remain depress unless u talk to someone ... its good u r sharing ur problems here ... but u require some close friend ... make new friends here as u r here for ... and first establish ur trust on him or her and then talk to him abt ur life and ur problems ...

it will help u

gladiator7

aapka kya khayal he main ne kaha nahiho gha

meri aik frnd thi ,best frnd ,and she is married now so i could not become more

bohat dafa kaha he

bhai se b kaha he wo b acha keh dete hain lakin mujhe le kar nahi jate

mujhe kahin akele jane ki adat nahi is liye wait karna parta he k koi le kar jae

kehte to hain k kar lo lakin le kar nahi jate

is liye mujhe laghta he main  be bas hoon kuch nahi kar sakti

baba had been died some years bfor

studies main bohat achi thi r mera irada tha m.a english karoon ghi coz meri english bohat achi thi

lakin itna arsa studies se in touch na hone ki wajha se ab to aik chota sa lafz nahi yaad aata

jese aik din main soch rahi thi k faida mand ki kya english hoti he to mujhe yaad nahi aa rahi thi r ye sub mujhe dipressed kar deta he

although meri sub frnds mujh se english subject main help letein thin

gladiator7

main yahan kese frnds banaoon koi b nahi janta mujhe

haan meri apne chote bhai se kafi frndship he lakin ab main us se ye sub batain nahi kar sakti

miss sensible

salaam

welcome here,miss,abhi aap ki umar itni ziyada nahin hai ke aap itna praishaan hon.Allah per bharosa rakhain.meray khayal se aap ko shaadi ke baray mein sochna chahiye kiyon ke agar aap ko job waghaira mein ziyada involve ho gayen tau aap ki life aik machine bun jayegi.abhi tau shaid frustration mein aap bahir nikalna chah rahin hain,laikin behter yehi hai ke apnay mother se apni shaadi ke baray mein baat karain.is tarah aap ki zindagi meanigfull ho jaye gi.shoher aur bachay aik aurat ki zindagi complete kertaiy hain,baaqi aik dhoka hai,aurat ko offices mein exploite kiya jaata hai.Allah per bharosa rakhian Allah ne her kisi ka couple banaya hai.

mera zaati khyal hai aap ko sex ki bhi frustration hai.is se pehlay kay aap kisi unislamic kaam ki taraf jayen aap ko shaadi ka sochna chahiye,Aur islam mein yeh bhi hai,ke agar sex ki desire ki waja se zina ki taraf janay ka khatra ho tau masturbation bhi jaiz hai.jab tak aap ki shaadi nahin hoti aap masturbation karain,is say aap kay kayee nafsiaati uljhanay hel ho jain gi aur zina say bhi buch jain gi.