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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Mar 2008, 1:42pm |
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 Father & Son Relationship
Kaha jatah hai k agar kisi jagah 2 Shaks baithey hoon.. Aur donon eak doosrey ko buhat ache tarha jaantey hain.. lekin woh pichley 10-30 minutes se khamoosh hoon or guftugo na kar rahe hon.. tou samajh lena chahiyah k woh donon Baap-Bete hain....!
Mera Sawal app se...
- Baap aur Bete ma itna Communication-Gap kyun hota hai..? Halankah Maa-Beti ya phir Baap-Beti ma nahi hota hai.
- Kiya yah Communication-Gap rakhna sahi hai? or issey ma bhaalaey hai...?
Members app sab iss per apne apne comments aur Life-Experience share karein... Thanks...!
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m.shah |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Mar, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 24 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Mar 2008, 1:46pm |
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 Communication Gap
Becuase Baap gher say bahir nikalta hay rozi roti kay lay and he knows kay society mein kiya kuch ho raha hay then wo try karta hay kay uska betha es zamany say bacha rahay but betha young / jawan hota hay restrication bardast nahi hoti.
Aur ye communication bohat hi ghalat hay should be remove at any cost otherwise bears hugh lose in a family structure.
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Mar 2008, 1:55pm |
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Both must respect each other Good Post.I want to write something here.
Beauty Star Bahi Gap must be between both of them but understanding must be between both of them.
And Father do not need to more pressurise to his son also .If he will preassurise then communication Gap will increase.
And both must respect each other.Aur aik batt jab son bapp kee Joti Pehn lay too pher Bapp koo zayada order nahi kernay chayay apnay son per .Kyoo uswaqat woo Bapp kay equal ho jata ha.
And i will also write that when son become young he must respect his father also.And at this stage son can remove communication Gap through arguments and hard working.
Wasay i will write here My father is Best Father.Altough i have many reservations about my father but my father is best.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Mar 2008, 2:03pm |
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 Re: Communication Gap
Thank You so much.. for your replies.. Mr.Shah & Mr.GoodMan.. We can have furthermore good discussion on this topic.
Mr.Shah.. Eak taraf app kah rahey hain k Baap bete ki bhalaey
chahtah hai issliyah yah Communication-Gap rakhta hai.. Dosre taraf app
kah rahein k yah nahi hona chahiyah... please app iss point ka zara
tafseel se explain kardein.
GoodMan...
App ki baat sahi hai.. magar app yah bataein k Baap-Bete kyun eak dosre
se apni baatein, apni khushiyaan, apne ghum, apni problems share nahi
karte... kyun donon eak dosre se baat karne ma hichkichahat
(Hesitation( mehsoos karte hain...? Kiya yah jo Communication-Gap issey
ma donon ki bhalaey hai.. ya phir ya nahi hona chahiyah...?
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:29th Mar 2008, 2:07pm |
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ab app bataoo agay Yarr yeah hona nahi chayay .Per dekhoo na kuch bapp friendly hotay ha aur kuch batay friendly hotay ha.Ab yeah both kee understanding per depend kerta ha na.kay bapp phal kerta ha ya bayta .
aur aik batt aur bee ha yaar bapp nay batay per preassure zarroor rakha hota ha jiss waja say yeah communication gap pada hota ha.ab app bataoo agay. |
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m.shah |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Mar, 2008 Topic: 1 Post: 24 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Mar 2008, 9:28am |
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BeautyStar I didn't say kay Baap balay kay lay communication gap rakta hay. What I said kay baap apnay exprience ki roshni mein kuch batoo say mana karta hay rokta hay but u know young blood thora joshela hota hay aur different gathering, society and media ka asar bi ho raha hota ha us per to it's hard to convience him or wo esi wajha say thora away ho jata hay apnay father say.#
Some time father bi thora ziyada hi strict hojata hay . ye bi negative impact karta hay. |
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:30th Mar 2008, 12:49pm |
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Re: Father-Son Relationship & Communication Gap Agar iss FORUM per koi Father hain jin ka Son
bhi hai tou please Reply karein... ya phir koi Mother hain tou woh bhi
reply karein... Shadi-Shudah loog zayadah behtar Jawab dey saktey hain.
Serisouly, Bewaqoof, Pinky7861 , Sunehri76..... App logon ka iss barey ma kiya khayal hai.
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Mar 2008, 9:09am |
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Any Father on this FORUM....??? Iss Forum per koi Father hai kisi Son ka tou please Reply karey... Thanks!
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BeautyStar |
Group: Members Joined: 16th May, 2007 Topic: 52 Post: 3598 Age:
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| Posted on:24th Apr 2008, 8:27am |
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 Married-People
Koi iss Topic per bhi reply daey dey tou bardi meharbani hogee... Aur apna experience bhi zaroor share karein...!
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Muhammad Atif |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2011 Topic: 3 Post: 125 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Dec 2011, 2:32pm |
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Atif here A.o.A
bohat acha topic he
jnb bap or bete me gap nh hona chahie jin famlies me esa hota he wo ghar kbi sakun pa skta
me is lie keh rha q k ye meri apni story he
or apne indian movie tare zamen pe b dekhi hogi
bap ka kam srf acha khilana acha ghar dena ya acha pehnana ya acha parha dena nh ye sb na b tec se de paye to beta or bap me gap ki waja nh bnta .gape ki waja bnta he bete par tec se tawajo na dena us k sath time spent na krna use srf bacha smj k uski rai na lena usk sath har topic pe bat na krna uski feelings ko na smjna uski himat or hosla na bharana 2bhai he to 2no me insaf na krna
bap chahe jesa b khilae rakhe or parhae par hamesha bete ko tec se smje or uski choti choti mushkhil ko hal krta rhe to bare hone par beta bap se kbi gap nh rakhta
lekin yad rakhe agr ek dafa ye gap bn jae to kbi pur nh ho pata
meri apni fmlies me same yie prob he mere coushins k sath wo b bohat pareshan rehte he lekin kuch czn bohat khush he q k unk father me or un me gape nh he
sari bat ka mtlb yie he k jo ye par rhe unko b kal ko bap bn na he to apne bete k sath contact rakhye ga warna ek or Atif bn jae ga., mtlb me |
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