Broke my hymen, what should I do?
Deleted Topic No: 38727 Posted By abc123007
Assalam O Alaikum I
wanted to ask a question but i was not sure of who to ask and how. I
found this website and encouraged myself to share my problem here. I am
22 years old and when I was below ten (I don't know when exactly) my
cousin used to live with us and once he sexually abused me I didn't
knew exactly what he did but I told my mother and she managed to make
my father send him away. Now my problem is that
a few years ago when I learned about sex and virginity I was not sure
if I was one or not. So I read on a website about how to check hymen. I
tried to do exactly THAT and I accidently broke my hymen (I am sure I
did) because it was painful and I bled. I am
so ashamed of myself. I am so afraid. I have received a few marriage
proposals and rejected all of them because I don't want to tell any one
about it. What should I do? I dont want to marry like this.
Jawab: 1. Aap ke cousin ne aap ke saath jo kuch kya tha os se aap ka hymen rupture nahi hua tha. lekin aap ne jab ose check kya tu wo rupture ho gaya.
2. Hymen check kerne se pain aur bleeding huyee tu yaqeena hymen rupture hua aur woh bleeding osi ki thi. 3. jab mia bivi mubashrat kertay hai tu hymen mukammal rupture hota hai aur phir woh repair nahi ho sakta. lekin agar fingering ya kisi accident ki wajah se halka sa tear ho tu woh khood bakhood heal ho jaata hai aur pehle jaisa ho jaata hai. 4. Agar hymen check kerne ke doran jaisay hi pain aur halka sa blood aaye aur osi waqt mazeed check kerne ka silsila rok dia jaaye tu iss ka matlab hua keh sirf halka sa tear hua hai. 5. Aap ke problem mei agar aap ne halka sa bleeding aur pain ke foran baad hymen check kerna chor dia tha tu samajh lein ko woh sirf halka sa tear hua tha jo keh ab heal ho ker dobara intact ho gaya hoga. 6. Aap ko mashwarah hai keh ab ghalti se bhi ise check kerne ki koshish na karain keh aap ka hymen rupture hai ya nahi. aisa kerne se woh dobara rupture ho jaaye ga. 7. Aik baat zehan mei rakhain ke shareef aur virgin larki hamesha shareef aur virgin hi rehti hai, chahe os ka hymen self fingering ya accidentally rupture ho gaya ho. lehaza hymen rupture se pareshan na hon.
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