Masturbation: I Dont Find Hardness As Like Before

Mai ek ghair shadi shuda naujawaan hoon.
Pahle behad Musht-zani kya karta tha lekin ab kaafi had tak control kar chuka hoon.
lekin Mera mas'ala ye hai ke, pahle jab main musht-zani karta tha tab mera uzuu bahut skht hojaya karta tha, laikin ab uzuu mein sakhti to hai lekin saamne ke sire (supaari) mein wo sakhti aur khinchao baqi nahi.
Pahle jab sakhti aati to lagta tha ke ab supaari khichaao se phat jayegi laikin ab aisa nahi hai.
Maine prha tha ki asl lizzat supaari ki jild ke zariye hi haasil hoti hai, main janna chahta hoon ke is halat me main shadi ke baad kya haqeeqi lizzat hasil karsakta hoon.
Agar ho sake to koi medine ya tareeqa bataayen.
Shukriya.