Re: Shohar(hubby) n boyfraud(bf)
I have been observing this post since long and now I would like to give my opinion, sorry if it takes much of your time to read.
As per my opinion, regardless of what has been said regarding panty stuff, morally aik married couple and unmarried couple ki relation main buhut difference hota hai.
Married relationship:
because after marriage woh aik family ka hissa hotay hain aur family ka apna aik behaviour and protocol hota hai. Although sexuality is a normal part of married relationship, laikin mian bivi main us ka bhi aik muhazzab tareeqa hota hai. Shayed woh in acts ko kartay huey bhi aik tameez ka damin haath sai nahin chortay hon gai (as i am unmarried) kion kai unhon nai sari zindagi saath rehnay ka azm kia hai aur anay wali generation ko bhi unhon nai mil kar palna hai. donon ki personality ka na sirf aik doosray per impression hota hai balkay doosray khandanon per bhi. so in this long life relationship, they dont talk with each other so vulgarly balkay har jaiz aur zaroorat ki cheez ko tameez aur muhazzab tareeqay sai discuss kartay hain, kion kai woh bivi apni hotee hai na kai kisi aur ki kai us sai batameezi sai fuhush batain ki jayen.
Unmarried Relationship:
jabkay girlfriend aik aisa so called relation hai jo kai life long commitment kai liye nahin banaya jata, infact in our society 99% log girlfriend sirf waqti jinsi taskeen kai liye banatay hain (here girlfriend is different from colleagues, class fellow or family friends), so un kai saath na tu koi zindagi bhar ki committment karni hotee hai aur na hi koi tameez ka rishta hota hai. haan boys show tu yahee kartay hain kai unhain buhut khayal hai larki ka laikin woh 99% sex talk hi karna pasand kartay hain. is liye yeh kehna kai girl friend ka khayal rakhnay kai liye aisee vulgar suggestion dee jatee hain tu remember you are no one to give any suggestion to any girl unless she is ur wife, aur jab wife ho gi tu aap ko bakhoobi pata ho ga kai us ko panty pehnani chahiye kai nahin, because us nai 24 hours aap kai ghar main rehna hai, aap kai parents, brothers, sisters and other family kai saath interact karna hai, uthna bethna hai, then both of you would know kai kia sahee hai aur kia galat.
conclusion:
listen, islam is not a small things in our lives kai we can think the solutions of problems for the help of others Out of islam. Jab islam aap ko gair mehram sai baat hi ki ijazat nahin deta, then who are you to say kai you suggest her to help her, aur agar na kartay tu yeh guna tha. aap nai tu pehla qadam hi galat uthaya , aur batain tu baad ki hain.
Batain tu buhut hain, but its getting too long, so I hope it wouldnt hurt anyone and would be taken as a positive statement. thanks
Re: USA n Europe
USA n Europe ki baat na hi karain tu behter hai, wahan tu aap ki honay wali bivi 200 different mardon sai bhi sex kar chukee ho tu woh shadi kai liye acceptable hotee hai,
kia aap aisee larki sai pakistan main shadi karain gai??????
kia usay apnay bachon ki maan banana pasand karain gai???
kia us kai saath sex kartay hue aap ko ghin nahin aye gi???
Listen even western men accept those women as their wives as they dont have any other way. Even from depth of their hearts they want a girl which have least relation with other men, because its a natural desire of a man.
and listen if any thing is wrong islamically, no way that thing can be good medically. even you helped any one, but in non islamic way, overall effect would be wrong.
Your Help concept:
and your help concept is amazing. phir tu yeh bhi help hue na kai aik prostitute ko sex ki urge ho rahee hai aur aap us kai saath sex karnay puhunch jayen kai she was in trouble aur aap nai us kai saath sex kar kai us ki desire poori kar kai us ki help ki. is lihaz sai tu aap apni girlfriend ki khoob help kar rahay hain aur woh aap ki help kar rahee hai. Laikin if this help is sex, then its called ZINA in muslims.
conclusion:
Listen bro, west is experimenting in this relationship field by themsleves out of the religion given to them. Wherease our religion has given us all the instruction already jin kai liye experiment ki zaroorat nahin. those who can read the whole post, pls comment if I am wrong? if no one replied, I would know kai it was too long to read. Thanks