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Tehseen |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Feb, 2007 Topic: 53 Post: 386 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 2:47am |
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 Help Me Mein Zindagi Aur Mot Ki Kashmakash Mein Hon
salam Dr mera masla bohat hi zeyda sanjida hey mein nachatey huey b is website pe apna masla biyaaan kara hon samj mein nhi ara k mein kahan sey start karon na mujey bhook lagti hey na neend ati hey socha reyta hon aur rota reyta hon to mein apney masley ki taraf ata hon 2006 - 2008 ik larki sey dosti huwi aur phir bat shadii tak chali gaie per ab aus ki shadii ksii aur sey hog aie hey per hum still ik dojey sey love kartey hey aus ney kaha tha k wo shadi k bad muj sey link mein rahey gii per abhi taak aus ka koie jawab hi nhi aayaa batata chalon k aus ki shadii ko kuch hi din huwy hen 20-04-2008 ko shadii khatam hwi hey ab to mein fully pagal hogey ahon mujey kuch samj mein nhi ara k mein aus sey kesy rabta karon , mein aus ko bholaney ki bohat koshish kara hon per mein is mein nakam hora hon aur aap logn ka yey keyna k shadii k bad aus sey link na rakhooo to mera dil-dimag is bat ko tasleem nhi kar para , ager wo muj sey link raky gi to mein kion peocey haton , mein isi intazar mein hon k wo muj sey kab link kary gii mein na to ji sakra hon aur na mar skara hon 3years koie chota arsa nhi hota mein manta hon k muj sey miss take huwii ager koie kaam kara hota to aaj yey nobat na atiii mein apni tamaam mistake ko taslim karta hon per mujey is malsey ka koei mukalam hal chaieyy plz aus ney apni sim b toor di thi ab mery pas aus sey link ka koei rasta b nhi hey , link ka rasta bas yeyhi hey k mein aus ko net per email karoon yahoo/ msn per aus ki ik frind ka cell no b mery pass hey , mein bohat 10tion mein hon isi liyey to mein ney apna masla yahan pe biyaan kia hey , mein bary dino sey soch rah tha k mein apna masla is site pe typ karon k na karoon, mein yey na chatey hwy b typ kara hon pata nhi kion, dil mein ik hope hey k wo wapis aie giiii , hum ney shadii karni hy.. mein ney apna Time, Peysaa,Seyhaat sub kuch aus pe laga di hey per mujey last mein kai mila ronaaa pata nhi wo aur kitney dono k bad muj sey rabta kary giiii pechey nhi hatna ab agey jana hey wo har kam muj sey poch kar karti thi , ab to aus ka jawab hi nhi ara hey plz mein bohat bari 10tion mein hon mujey to kuch b samj mein nhi ara hey , taniion mein rota hon aus k liyey mujey asa lagta hey k jesy mein kisi Black Jungal mein hon aur Roshni muj sey koie cheen kar ley gaie hey aur ab mein aus Roshani k intazar mein hon k wo kab wapis aie gii mein aaj b aus ka wait kara hon , mein ney 3year ausiii k bary mein socha ager time pass karna hota to aj yey nobat na hoti, aus ney last call mein kaha tha k mein tum ko chor k nhi jara hi hon mein wapis aoo gii mein ab beybas ho chuka hon is malsey ka koei sanjida hal batiey plzzz aap ki Duwaon ka Talab Gar
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 4:33am |
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tehseen dear....
ap ye kion nai sochtey k wo ap ki kismat mein nai thi...jis k naseeb mein thi us k sath us ki shadi ho gae...wo ab us ki izzat ahi aur ap k liye na-mehram hai
aur na-mehram larki k sath jo kisi aur ki biwi hai, us k sath ap kesa taluk rakhna chah rahey hain??????? ye bohat bara gunnah hai bhai merey.....
ap usey bhool jayen...werna bohat bar gunnah ho ga ap ko aur sath hi ap ko Allah bohat bari saza dey skta hai...
ap ye sochiye, let suppose k jis larki se apki shadi ho, wo bi pehle se 2-3 sal se kisi aur boy k chakar mein ho, aur shadi k bad bi wo usi k sath chakkar achalti rahey aur contact kerti rahey, aur phir achanak ek din ap ko is sari bat ka pata chal jaye....to ap ka kia reaction ho ga????????
thanday dimagh se ye sub sochiye ga....agar ap samajhdar huye to khud samajh jayen gey.... |
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saima arif |
Group: Members Joined: 26th Mar, 2008 Topic: 10 Post: 401 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 5:06am |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 5:22am |
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tehseen very nice post by saima
im agreed to her
dear meri baton per bi ghaur keryen aur plz jaldi se jaldi kisi achi larki se, apne ghar walon ki marzi se shadi ker leyn....is se ap ko us larki ko bhu;laney mein bohatttttttt help miley gi |
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doctorji |
Group: Experts Joined: 21st Apr, 2008 Topic: 3 Post: 540 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 5:53am |
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hmmm critical janab
non-medical advice:
jo larrki aap ke liye pyaar hote hue bhi apne waldain ko na bata saki ke woh aap se hi shadi karna chahti hai, aisi larrki ke liye pagal hona sach much pagal pann hai. woh iss qabil hi nahi ke apni zindagi uss ke liye barbaad karo.
harr larrki ko yeh haq islam deta hai kay apni marzi se shadi kare. aakhir nikah naamay par to uss ne khud hi dastakhat kiya na? ya zabardasti ki shadi kahi aur ho gayi? janab chorriye aisay ulte seedhe pyaar wyaar, mr. bewakoof to iss forum me koi aur hain, aur harkaat aap kar rahe hain bewakoofi ki.
zara khud insaaf de ghaur kijiye, aik larrki jo ke pyaar ka izhaar karte hue bhi aap se shadi karne ke liye kuch na kare, kya woh aap ki zindagi ke safar me aap ka saath degi??
khwaab dekhna aap ka haq hai, abhi bhi dekhne hain to dekhiye.
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faisal4u |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Apr, 2008 Topic: 2 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 8:40am |
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Tehseen Tehseen bhai sab ne buhot ache mashwarey dye hain aur mera bhi yehi mashwara hai k aap us ko bhoolne ki koshish karain agar us ko ap k saath love hota to woh shadi kion karti mana bhi to kar sakti thi meri baat ka bura mat manana kion k ho sakta hai k woh majbur ho to behtar yehi hai k aap us ko bholney ki koshish karain aur yehi sochain k agar aap ki biwi bhi kisi aur k sath contact rakheygi to ap ko kesa lagega ab woh apne husband ki ho chuki hai ap ka us se milna acha nahi hoga aur agar aap mil bhi lyeh aur phir kabhi us ke husband ko pata chala to phir sochain us ki life ka kia hoga us ka image kitna kharab ho jayega is lyeh mere bhai ap agay ka sochain aur aisa nahi hota k agar koi chala jaye ap ko chor kar to aap usaynahi bhool saktay kion k agar kisi ki death hojati hai to shruu main to woh buhot ziada yaad ata hai phir ham kia soch kar roz rotey nahi hain k woh Allah ki dia hua tha aur us ne hi wapas le lia is lyeh aap bhi yehi sochain k woh ap k lyeh nahi thi so plz apni life kharab mat karain be happy always yeh sochain k Allah ne shayad aap k lyeh us se bhi achi wife rakhi ho.
Please agar meri koi baat buri lagi ho to I M Sorry.
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Veer |
Group: Members Joined: 12th Oct, 2011 Topic: 85 Post: 4718 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Apr 2008, 11:32pm |
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Tehseen agreed with saima , Zeb
aap ne shaadi karni thi to os ki shaadi se pehle karte ager aap donu pyar karte thay to shaadi aap ne hone kyun di?aur ladki ne bhi kyun ki?
jahan pyar hota hai wahan parwa nehin hoti.ager woh ladki pyar karti thi to kuch bhi ho jata woh shaadi na karti.main samuj sakta hon aap ke dil pe es waqt kya beet rehi ho gi.lekin kya kar sakte hain.kabhi kabhi na chahte huye bhi humhe kuch kaam ese karne parte hain jis ke bare mein hum soch bhi nehin sakte
aap es waqt bhut dukhi aur rote ho ge aur aap ka dil bhi karta ho ga ke kisi tarha os ladki se shaadi kar lon.lekin dear jo cheez aap ki nehin woh aap ko kabhi nehin mele gi aur jo cheez aap ki hai ose duniya ki koi takat nehin aap se cheen sakta.
mera mashwara yehi hai ke aap apne dil ko samujo aur ose bhool jao woh apne ghar khosh hai aur mujhe umeed hai ke aap os ka ghar kharab nehin karo ge aur ose khosh dekhna chaho gi
Allah aap ko sabar de aur ose bhool jane ki takat bhi de Ameen |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Apr 2008, 3:22am |
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tehseen agreed to all....
phir kia socha ap ne bhai |
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Sahilhasan |
Group: Members Joined: 07th Dec, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 1 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Dec 2009, 6:36am |
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Mr. Tehseen apka masla main nay read kiya hay ... yeh itna bara nahn jitna aap nay is ko bana liye hay
Dekho Dost , Jahan tak larkiyon ki baat hay, jab unki shadi hojaye or woh apni life say satisfy hon to woh sirf apnay shohar ki hoti hain, Larkiyan bohat Jazbari hoti hain woh apnay ap ko rokna bohat mushkil hota hay ... agar larkay like you apnay ap ko sambhal na sakain to yeh theek nahn ...thora apnay uper bhi qabo rakhain
or agar ap waqai us say pyar kartay hain to us kay liye dua karain Allah us ki life main hamesha khusiyan day .. kya ap chahaingay ab us ki married life kharab hojaye ?
Dost Shadi karlo kisi achi si larki say .. apna future banao .. joray asmano per bantay hain ... forget it .. and be relax.. ap ki zindagi ap kay liye bhalay na zarori ho per ap kay ghar walon kay liye bohat qeemti hay ... dosron kay liye jeena sekho dost ..apnay liye to har koi jeeta hay
Take care your self brother
my best wisher for you ...
Hamesha khosh rehna seekho yeh dunya to waisay hi maslon say bhari pari hay..
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muddi |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Dec, 2009 Topic: 6 Post: 16 Age:
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| Posted on:7th Dec 2009, 6:56am |
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muddi hi brother i jst say u that forgot her and live happy life or namaz para karo .god solve urs problem automaticaly INSHALLAH....... |
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2009, 6:24am |
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bhai logon yeh post april 2008 ki hai, abb tak to uss larke ne dosri larki se shadi bhi kar li hogi, avayen tension mat lo. |
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