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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2007, 12:56am |
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 Illegal Sex And Its After Effects
A question for all: We know that a culture of keeping girl friends for extramerital sex before marriage (or after marriage too) is developing in our society. In this forum also, we have seen replies many times that dont do sex with girl friend etc. Now from which society these girl friends are? We know bf usually dont marry with gf. So when these girls marry with other man, they wouldnt be virgin for sure. So it means as this trend is progressing, after sometime very few girls will remain virgin before marriage. Although every good or bad boy in our society look for virgin girl. What do you comment on this situation?
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hopeful |
Group: Members Joined: 14th May, 2007 Topic: 4 Post: 20 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2007, 9:39am |
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i think u should look at her family values,if she belongs to a shareef family,then she will b no doubt a virgin girl.if u r running after a fashionable or a very so called modern lady ,then will not b able to get a faithful wife.thats y our prophet ..saw..asked men to marry a religious woman.
well this question always strikes my mind about g/f.where they come from.when i was in college i use to see n hear about such girls. i cannot say that all of them come from modern society ,cauze i always had friends from such families but they all had a very good character.mayb their parents r ignorant about their daughters or they come from broken families or they have some psychological problem.these girls also dont want to marry their b/f,they just take it as fun.
i think proper attention from parents should b given to these girls,if they want to save their respectable place in society.
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2007, 2:49pm |
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these type of girls are present in every social class and every area. all they share in common is the psychological need for attraction,love, money, luxury or recognition which they may not get at their families. the question that after sometime very few girls will remain virgin before marriage, i personally don't agree to it . there is no limit of goodness. not all the girls are curupt. when there is darkness, there is light. thats why we hope. thats why we love to live in this world. |
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faisee |
Group: Active Members Joined: 13th Feb, 2007 Topic: 79 Post: 776 Age:
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| Posted on:27th May 2007, 2:57pm |
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Re: nice replies from hopeful and khan_80. thanks for alleviating the confusion. |
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justSalman |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Apr, 2007 Topic: 7 Post: 174 Age:
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| Posted on:28th May 2007, 4:43am |
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Nothing Back After a very nice & mature replies from members hopeful and especially khan _ 80 nothing to discuss any more but just i want to write some thing that it is weekness of our Relgion. we actually forgot all the teaching of Islam just a name is remaining with us you people knows that now a day imam masjid or any person who is teaching islam having a big home and a big land lord, costly cars, new mobile phones, cable or satallite at home and bla bla i am not pointing out any thing about any one even my self i am having all of that but what i want to point out is that if our teaching is wrong how we will be right if our elder having a bad habbits we will copy it very easily if a father having a girl friend outside how a son cannot have it after now a days it is a trend and topics in small gatherings between friends if a boy having a sex before marriage or not which is wrong.
so the thing is we have to stricly religous and avoid every thing which is prohibted in Islam
NOTE : hey Dear members don't take any hard feeling about any thing which i have written about any one Because i knows five figers of a hand is not equal
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aslam4u |
Group: Members Joined: 15th May, 2007 Topic: 0 Post: 11 Age:
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| Posted on:28th May 2007, 7:51am |
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 Islamic Point of view
Girlfriend Culture is western Culture which is not allowed in islam. Because these are shetan lines(khutowatishayeteen).So we kept in mind the ayat of Sur noor That” Khabees mardoon ka leye khabees aurtain aur khabees aurtoon ka leye kahbees mard,Pak aurtoon kay leye pak mard aur pak mardoon ka leye pak aurtain. So no Chance of Girlfriend if you want pious wife. |
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sahirsani |
Group: Members Joined: 02nd May, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 44 Age:
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| Posted on:29th May 2007, 1:20am |
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well hormones have lot of power, when they are active its hard to control them, so this is the basic reason for building this culture, The solution is simple Islam has given it thousands of years back that get married after becoming an adult male or female, but we r getting far from our religion then these things will happen naturally, Islam is not only haj, namaz and roza its a full system of life u have to adopt it fully to enjoy its benefits fully. Ksi larki ko 2 no keh dena ya kisi larke ko awara keh dena masle ka hal nahi hai mein ne tu aise aise bachia dekhi hein jo full burqay mein ghar se nikalti hein aur bahar ja kar larko se mil rahi hoti hein aur aba jan masjid ke molvi hote hein. Nature se insan kab tak lar sakta hai iss ka sahi hal munasib waqt per shadi hai.
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:30th May 2007, 2:16pm |
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nice reply from sahirsani. |
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attractive |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Mar, 2007 Topic: 28 Post: 61 Age:
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| Posted on:30th May 2007, 4:36pm |
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yahan per aik question banta hay k females main tou sex etc ka jazba bohat kam hota hay phir wo kioon males k jaal main aa jati hain??? |
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Raja Rafiq |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Oct, 2012 Topic: 1 Post: 10 Age:
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| Posted on:31st Jan 2013, 5:55am |
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Please help me AoA to all. I don't know the post which I am uploading here is right to share to all with you Actully I wanted to know about this if someone commit "ZANA" then how can he lost his/her punishment. My age is almost 21 years and when I was at the age of 16 or 17 may be at that time I start masturbation I do this once must in a week and this goes uptill now I m very wondor how to solve this problem.
Second problem which is the most most important please don't blame me like as you are scolding out the previous person's post I wants to get rid of from it as soon as possible that is basicaly We have a joint family system in which there is my uncle also lived. My uncle daughter's is very very **** also beatiful. I commit this sin almost 9-10 times (ZANA) when she was sleeping but in term of zana i never do this in a real way manner like (to insert penis into her vagina) instead I just come up and just on his body try some sexual strokes and with in 1 min I discharged.
Actuly I wants to know is there any way so that I can leave my this big punishment. I don't know why this happening with me that whenever she came from any place even I am too far from her I get some smell through which I go and go near towards her and watch out this body part speclly **** Kindly give me the sollution I wants to get rid of from it but her's smell not let me out from this stuff. And sometimes she caught me and wake up during when I was doing sex with her instead her mother even know this but due to respect of mine as I m the most elder of family she keeps quiet but I not able to control my self. please help me this while I know that girl is not a kind girl she was a very selfish girl not care to any one inspite of it all knowing factors I go to towards her and find oppertunity whenever she sleep... please I know I commit A biggest sin in my life I even promise my self and with my Allah but I broke it shamefull to me( just because of her smell like a pasina which I love her's body smell this cause me to cross every limit :( )
But Alhamduliallah a time when I am not even capable to control my masturbation time even just for 1 min nowadays after self control I capable to do this masturbation almost 30 -50 mins. but I decided this to do this only two times in the whole year. |
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