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Mrs.Khan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Dec, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 11:22pm |
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 Intercourse: What Is The Method Of Successful Intercourse?
AOA dr sahib ..May Allah reward you for the work you r doing i have a problem 5 months have gone we are unable to do sex ........in the begining my husbands penis was losing its hardness at the time of sex so we took it light and thought there is much time ........ any way then we tried fingering after 3 months of marriage 1 finger is going very easily but he tried 2 i felt so much pain and he took out then he didnot tried still we are unable to do sex my vagina is do tight ..............wht to do i am very tensed should we continur inserting 2 fingers.........or should i visit some dr ............dr sahib plzz help me now it is a tension for me ...........people start asking about good new what should i tell them i cant say any thing to any one.........my husband dotn wanna give me pain ...............many times he tried to puch penis inside but it is not going is there some defect or some thing else plzz guide us we will be greatful........thanks alot
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goodman |
Group: Members Joined: 11th Oct, 2007 Topic: 59 Post: 7336 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 12:09pm |
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 consult with doctor face 2 face
Salam,
Mrs Khan some time hymen does not rupture with penis.And my opnion is that you must consult with doctor to check this procedure.
Doctor will guide you better in this regards to rupture your hymen with operation .Then you will sucess in your love.
Waiting for your comments.
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rafaz |
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 12:22pm |
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MY ADVISE FOR YOU My friendly advise to you aap apney husband ko kaheen k wo koi oil use kareen apney penis per sersoon ka tail ya coconet ka oil thora sa lagaeen apney penis per phir aap k under insert kareen qk buth dafa vagina dry hota ha is lyee is ko zaroor use kareen is k elawa aap jeb intercourse kerney k lyee tayar hoon to apni legs poori khool leen aur legs ko more ker apney pait ki taref ker leen vagina k musels ko loose rekheen phir apney husband say insert kerney k lyee kaheen lon foreplay na kerwaeen log fore play kernay say mard ki erection kem ho jati ha. Subah 4 ya 5 bajee sex kareen us waqt tanao kafi hota ha. |
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khan_80 |
Group: Members Joined: 09th Mar, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 2604 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 12:43pm |
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success in intercourse
- Do long foreplay
- adopt comfortable position during sex
- don't think sex is a painful activity
- ask ur husband to put 2fingers inside vagina when it is fully lubricated with vaginal secretions
- u should bear the pain as it is temporary and is not so unbearable.
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Mrs.Khan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Dec, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 1:20pm |
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need prayers Dear khan _80 you yourself a doctor do you really think we can do it now i am losing confidence of doing sex..............pray for me also i will try this now............so u think no need to visit a doctor as one of member suggested me this also......that some operation will be needed to solve the problem wht to u say for it |
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Mrs.Khan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Dec, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 1:28pm |
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need reply from Dr.Rizwan i would be really grateful to be replyed by Dr.Rizwan wht does he say about my problem i will be satisfied..........waiting for yu reply
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Aag |
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| Posted on:25th Dec 2007, 2:28pm |
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Mrs khan I agree with khan80 as im also a married person. What i understood is that ur husband is not willing to give u pain thats the main problem. When ever he try to insert his penis and then u feel apain due to which ur husband stop.
Listen this will happen when ever first time intercourse is doing because of vagina small size and hymen.. my advice for u is that u must first follow the step which was mention by khan80 and INSHALLAH both of u will success.
2nd thing is fear. dont take tension and fear. If ur husband do sex with u in tension mood and with fear then i confirm that he will not able to do intercourse with u. Advice ur husband to be relax and calm and then try. |
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farzaan |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 28 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 10:00am |
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reply to mrs khan madam hamare sath bhi exactly same masla tha
meri shadi jan me hui thi aur hum ne august me pahla intercourse kiya tha
aur wahi masla tha jo aap ke sath hai
tafseel aap ko kisi aur waqt bataunga |
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pinky7861 |
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 10:07am |
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 Mrs. Khan
It is very simple. If u want to have succesful intercourse then DO NOT COMPLAIN and bear the pain for couple of times. Everything will get better afterwards.
If u think it this way that u are having a mental irritation for 5 months now, then why not get rid of this FRUSTRATION with just taking physical pain for 2, 3 times as it will save u from frustration for another 5 months. |
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Mrs.Khan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Dec, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 12:07pm |
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really like to listen I would really like to listen how did u solve the problem as u better understand my feelings |
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Mrs.Khan |
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 12:08pm |
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for pinky yes pinky tell me details thanks bye |
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Mrs.Khan |
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 12:10pm |
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sorry mr farzaan plzz write the details what happened and how did u overcome that problem? |
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Mrs.Khan |
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 12:12pm |
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for Dr khan yes u advised to insert 2 fingers they went easily inside ...... but my husbands sex organ is not that much hard as it need to be to go inside vagina .......should we take any medicine wht do u suggest as a dr |
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farzaan |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 28 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 2:24pm |
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attn mrs khan madam i feel all people here are passing comments randomly. we know ur problem and solutions as we suffered.
till 8 monts we did sabar . but why should we share the matter with everyone who are here just for fun sake |
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farzaan |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 28 Age:
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| Posted on:2nd Jan 2008, 2:41pm |
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attn mr khan we will tell the details only when online |
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khoobsurat |
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2008, 4:12am |
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First intercourse mrs.khan: mera khayal hai ke aap ko forum ke sensible members aur doctors ki baat manni chahiye aur non-serious (farzaan) members ki baton mai nahi aana chahiye. dekhen, first intercourse mushkil zaror hota hai magar agar aap ke husband aap ke sath co-operate karen to es ko enjoyable aur memorable banaya ja sakta hai, like woh aesa foreplay karen jo aap ko pasand ho, kuch din tak sirf foreplay hi karen. jab apko khud sex ki desire paida ho tab hi next step par aen. sab se pehle to ek bat apne mind mai betha len ke sex koi painful chez nahi hai balke yeh ek gift hai ALLAH ka husband wife ke liye. apne zehen se khauf nikal den. jab tak aap pain ke dar ke sath sex karege woh naa-kaam hi hoga. come on yar! grow up. aap married ho, thora pain to bardasht karne ki himmat karo. child birth mai to es se hazaron times zada pain hota hai to kiya auratein es khauf se pregnant hona chor deti hain? aap khud kiya pregnancy avoid kar sakti ho sirf es khauf ki waja se?
shukar karo ke aap ke husband caring hain jo aap ka sath de rahe hain warna koi jald-baaz kisam ka admi hota to ya to aap ko (God Forbid) chor chuka hota ya (God Forbid) dosri shadi kar leta.(aese logon ki kami nahi hai duniya mai)
farzaan: aap yahan forum par aate hain, aur ajeeb ajeeb se questions karte hain (apni previous posts read kar len) plz aap jo kuch bhi share karna chahte hain, yahan forum par hi baat karen, kisi ko unclear answer dene ya wrong answer dene se behtar hai ke insan chup rahe. |
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farzaan |
Group: Members Joined: 16th Nov, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 28 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2008, 5:37am |
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not related to foreplay this problem is not at all related to foreplay |
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Bili_miau |
Group: Members Joined: 20th Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 871 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2008, 10:28am |
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well well i belive that whn u make sex u should be very horny and erotic..as let me tell u..if u dont have the right feelings when making love.u wont be able to take it in easily for the first time..it does hurt..but it dnt hurt in the way that u cant take it in...u as a woman got to be more active and play more around..dnt act like a dummy....
this post is not jokes...try it and u will see the effects |
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Mrs.Khan |
Group: Members Joined: 21st Dec, 2007 Topic: 1 Post: 18 Age:
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2008, 11:51pm |
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Farzaan sahib AOA i would really like to share the problem so you can have my email id at yahoo
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Moderator Note: Exchange of Emails id not allowed. If you share your email id again then we will block you. |
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nikama |
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| Posted on:3rd Jan 2008, 12:35pm |
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 Hmm Mrs Khan..
If u still unable to do intercouse & even after trying all advises ,then u can go for some normal medical chek up..Noting to worry any way..It happens in a lots cases that could be due to the hymen pb( could be so hard ),could be some vag infec (may be)..so pls consult some doc practically..U will be okay |
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