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khan0320 |
Group: Members Joined: 14th Dec, 2007 Topic: 5 Post: 25 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 3:04pm |
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 Love: Should I Do Sucide?
salam mine jis larki se piyar karta ho . woski mangni kisi our se hogi hai . woh larki b khush nahi hai . mine pathan ho our woh larki mere rishtedar hai . ab mine kia karo . mine oski bagher zindagi ka tasoor b nahi karskta . mine chata ho ya tu khud sucide karlo or ya os boy ko katal karo jis meri lover ki mangni hocoki hai ye do raste hai mere pass. can any one help me what to do know. khuda hafiz
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Aag |
Group: Moderators Joined: 21st Nov, 2007 Topic: 22 Post: 1130 Age:
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| Posted on:15th Dec 2007, 3:50pm |
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both ways are haram apka dono rastai haram kam hain. sucide haram hai aur katal karna bohot bara gunnah hai. Ap en dono kamo ka baad bhi us larki ko nahi pa sakainga aur sedha dhozhak mai jainga.
Koi tesra rasta talash kariya. Ap dono ko chahiya ka apna ghar walo ko batadain taqai waqt hath sai nikal na sa pahla hi bat hojai aisa na ho ka baad mai ap aur woh yah sochai ka kash ham batadaita.
Pathano ka mahol ka andaza hai mujhai. Laikin bahtar hai ka ap apna mother sai discuss karain aur larki apni mother sai. laikin jo 2 rasta apka pas hai dono ghalat hai.
Jab en dono rasto pa chalna ka baad apko woh larki nahi milaigi aur sath sath apko bohot bara gunnah miljaiga. issai acha to yah hoga ka ap us larki ki shadi us larka sai honadoo aur ALLAH sai dua karoo ( agar koi tesra rasta apka pas hai to good) |
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zeb |
Group: Members Joined: 18th Aug, 2007 Topic: 114 Post: 13610 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 3:08am |
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to khan agred to Aag
ye dono options bilkil avail na kijiye ga...bht gunnah ho ga dono se
behter yahi hai k ghar walon se bat keryn aur apne ghar walon se kaheyn k larki k ghar walon se bat keryen, aur us larki se bi kaheyn k wo bi apni mother se bat kereyn...mujhey to is k ilawa aur koi rasta nai lagta, behter hai k foren bat keryen aur abi time hai, wrna der ho gaye to us ki shadi bi ho jaye gi aur jitna late ho ga, ap k chances utne hi kum ho jayen gey.....
is k ilawa Allah se dua keryen, istakhara kerwayen, namaz aur Quran bakydgi se perhtey raheyn...Allah khair karey ga
ap k pas koi third option hai to batayen......... |
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hussain ja |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Dec, 2007 Topic: 8 Post: 222 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 4:08am |
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 not argree
sub say pehly tu baat ye hai ki us ki magni hochuki hai,ab ager ap nay ghar waloun say baat b ki tu mera khayal hai ki is ka koi faida nahi kiyon ki ghar waly yahi kahengay k us ki magni ho chuki hai,us larki say jis ki shadi rorahi hai ist tu wo us ko chudy ga nahi or larki k ghar waloun nay tu us larky ko pasad kia hai ab mujy nahi lagta ki wo us risty ko tud ka ap say shadi karwa dayegay,ap ko phely cheye tha ki apny ghar waloun ko batadaity ab tu koi faida nahi,ek hi option hai mery nazdik k ap us ko bol jao or us ki fikhar karna b chod do kiyon ki ab koi faizda nahi,ap k pas jo 2 option hai wo dounoun galat hai aisa kabi mat karna warna bad may pachtayo gay.baqi allah hi behtar kary ga, khuda hafiz |
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Aag |
Group: Moderators Joined: 21st Nov, 2007 Topic: 22 Post: 1130 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Dec 2007, 2:11pm |
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 not agree
Well waisa mai completly agree nahi karta hussain sai kiyu ka ajkal bhi aisa dekhna mai ata hai ka larkion ki mangni hojati hai ghar waloki pasand sai magar p hir toor kar dusra larka sai kardejati hai.
Meri aik bat yad rakhaiyga ka ap ki shadi ussai ho yah na ho laikin woh apki bhi ezat hai koi bhi aisa kam yah amal nahi kariyaga jis sai uski agai ki zindagi pa bura asar parai. Agar ap yah sochtai hai ka ap uski shadi us larka sai honai daingai to meri advice yahi hai ka ap kisi ko bhi apna piyar ki bat nahi bataiyaga kiyu ka love affairs sai related batain agar larka ki hon to koi farkh nahi parta hai laikin agar yah batain larki ki hon to uski zindagi pa bohot hi zada effect parta hai. |
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drAman |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Sep, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 1:04pm |
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 Plz yaar listen
dekho bhai meri baat suno |
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drAman |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Sep, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 1:10pm |
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 Plz yaar listen
sorry yaar but you do have other ways coz suicide is not the only way. Look as far as i know,u are a muslim, and i assum that u are a good muslim. Dekho bhai your condition is similar to what i was having before. Dekho Allah par pura bharosa karo key jo usney tumko nahi diya us main bhi bhalayi hai, main tumko hurnt nahi karna chah raha lekin yaar its similar to fighting with Allah, key Allah ne mujhe yeh nahi diya, to ab main yeh le ke dikhaoun ga (MAZ'ALLAH). You don't have to struggle for what Allah has already decided about. Haan koshish karo, apni waleedain se baat karo, koi close relative se baat karo, aur agar ho sakey to us lakey se ya larki key parents se baat karo. Look, its not always good for you, what seems to be good, ho sakta hai key tumko us se bhi kahain achi larki mil jaey. But pray for yourself, don't worry, and just Believe and Thank Allah for what He has given to you.
Inshallah you would be fine !! |
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drAman |
Group: Members Joined: 22nd Sep, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 4 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 1:11pm |
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Plz yaar listen dekho bhai meri baat suno |
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insan |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Jul, 2009 Topic: 12 Post: 463 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 5:04pm |
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 Mr.Dr.Aman
kia app waqiya hi aik dr. hain ya apney naam k sath waisey hi dr. lga rakha hey...
behar haal app jo b hain app aiasa karein k subah subah uth kr kholtey howey pani k sath 2 adad hari mirchain khaya karein iss sy app ki ankhain khul jaien gi aur app inshallah daikhney lag jaye gey .....................oye bndey khuda k tumahain reply krny k liye 2 saal purani threads hi milti hain ...itney nai topics hain unn main ja kar kaheen tabah azmaie kroo...... |
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Azfar-K |
Group: Members Joined: 01st Mar, 2009 Topic: 3 Post: 772 Age:
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| Posted on:22nd Sep 2009, 11:15pm |
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re: ha ha |
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haideri |
Group: Members Joined: 29th Aug, 2009 Topic: 11 Post: 109 Age:
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| Posted on:23rd Sep 2009, 12:52pm |
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GAMe Khelo DUniya main Kuch na Mumking nahi in Ki batain mat sonu jo main kahoun wo sonu ager waqiye main sachi muhabbat karte hain nahi re saktay ho
TU bhag kar shadi karlo pher koi tumhara kuch nahi kar sakta
ager shadi karli b tu goliyan mardain gay mager tum tu asse b marna chatay ho isse acha mar hi jaho mager us ko paa kar shadi karke
ager etni himat karke dekhao dekha do tum sacha pyar kartay ho wo b tum se kitna pyar karti he sab pata chal jaye
tum dono tu ek dusre tu jaan se zada pyar karte ho karke dekha do jo main keh ra hon nahi kar sakay tu samaj lena tum dono ek dosre se sacha pyar nahi kartay ho
bas etna hi kafi he pyar karne walon k liye
or han mere bhai soch samaj kar karna
or dosra idea
danay nikalne wali dawa use karo matlab ye us ko bolo is ko apne moun par laga lay wo badsurat lagay gi main b dekhta hon kon karay ga us ki shadi jab taq wo assi dawahi use karay jab taq us ka mangater chor nahi deta
bhai bahut tarikay hain tum koi bachay nahi ho samaj dar ho
mager kabi khubkushi mat karna galti se b nahi karna kyun k tumhara pyar tumhare sath abi juda nahi hua he jaldi karo jo karna he |
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naive |
Group: Members Joined: 19th Oct, 2009 Topic: 0 Post: 23 Age:
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| Posted on:19th Oct 2009, 6:56pm |
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My suggession Life aik nemat hai Allah ki taraf say ye zaya karny ki cheez nahi hai.mere aqal kay hisab say apko apny parents ko kehna chahye k unkay ghar walon say rishty ki bat karen beshak mangni ho chuki hai lakin ap at least aik try kar sakty hain try to convince them mangni hue hai koi nikah to nahi ho gya jo ap usko hasil na kar sako apni taraf say bharpur koshish karo agar Allah na karey kuch na bana to b apky dil main ye guilt nahi ho ga k ap nay apni muhabat k leye kuch nahi kiya u should at least try according to me coz one of my friend tried ladki kay parents nay mangni tod kar ladki ki shadi merey friend say kar de to it works try it best of luck take care.
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YSRSLM888 |
Group: Members Joined: 23rd Oct, 2009 Topic: 8 Post: 96 Age:
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| Posted on:6th Nov 2009, 11:36pm |
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hey listen pehle date per lo ye post 2007 ki hy, os ne ab tek sucide ker b lia ho ga, ya apna fesla badal lia ho ga |
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Javed Imad |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2009 Topic: 14 Post: 367 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2009, 1:59pm |
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Patan Mar Gia...Dua Karo Lagta Hy pathan mar gia ho ga, ... hheeehehhe ab pata nai kahan sucide ki hy.... |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2009, 6:57pm |
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 Listen Carefully
love is life, u can,t live without ur lover..............hmmmmmm i accept that its truth as well.
but ziyada filmy dialouges par dehan mat deena Mr Pathan. Remember u should think about her future u can,t destroy it, ur pathan u know what will happen if u will run and marry her very bad if u will do it u will regret......
Bhol ja osi tumhari zindagi mein koi aur laila ajaige,,,,i promise,,,, do din ki zindagi hai esi piyar se Guzaro tumhari shadi tumhari ma bap ki marzi se hogi, tumhari piyari piyari sweet sweet bachi hongi admi ko aur kia chahy life mein,,,,,,,
chilllllll meri bhai filmy dunia se baher aa aur positive soch keep worshiping Allah HE will show u the right Path
God Bless U |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:17th Nov 2009, 6:57pm |
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Listen Carefully love is life, u can,t live without ur lover..............hmmmmmm i accept that its truth as well.
but ziyada filmy dialouges par dehan mat deena Mr Pathan. Remember u should think about her future u can,t destroy it, ur pathan u know what will happen if u will run and marry her very bad if u will do it u will regret......
Bhol ja osi tumhari zindagi mein koi aur laila ajaige,,,,i promise,,,, do din ki zindagi hai esi piyar se Guzaro tumhari shadi tumhari ma bap ki marzi se hogi, tumhari piyari piyari sweet sweet bachi hongi admi ko aur kia chahy life mein,,,,,,,
chilllllll meri bhai filmy dunia se baher aa aur positive soch keep worshiping Allah HE will show u the right Path
God Bless U |
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saahilbhai |
Group: Members Joined: 31st Oct, 2007 Topic: 17 Post: 971 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 2:29am |
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waaah sharmily kia baat hai, app ko to aik book likhni chaiye. |
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love bird |
Group: Members Joined: 06th Nov, 2008 Topic: 73 Post: 1175 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 2:41am |
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Abb tou Kehtay hain keh mar jahain gay .....mar keh bhee chain na aaeha tou kidhar jahain gay ?????
Marnay mein woo maza kahan .....jo oas ka sath ya oas ki yadoon kay sath jeenay mein hai !!! |
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sharmily |
Group: Members Joined: 08th Nov, 2008 Topic: 5 Post: 398 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 1:40pm |
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 saahilbhai ;-)
thnx bahi;-) |
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hasna |
Group: Members Joined: 25th Apr, 2009 Topic: 39 Post: 1867 Age:
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| Posted on:20th Nov 2009, 8:04pm |
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PATHAN BHAI sharmily ne 100% theek kha hai ap filmi dunia se bahar ajao kisi ek k liye to ALLAH PAK ne hme life nhi di hai na hi kisi ek k na hone se hum zinda nhi rhy gy ...............apky liye ek song
chor dy sari duniya kisi k liye .................ye munasib nhi admi k liye
zindgi me zrori aur b kaam he pyar sbkuch nhi zindgi k liye........................lolz
apko bht achi wife mily gi waise pathania hoti bht cute he aur beautifull mumkin hai is wali me koi kmi ho jo apko nhi mili shadi hmesha parents i rza mndi s kro kbhi zor zbrdsti nhi kro................waise ek bat btao meri apni love marriage hui hai.....................lolz
laikin parents kii rza mandi aur hushi se ok keep it in ur mind pyar sbkuch nhi zindgi k liye................................GOD BLESS U |
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